cheating

cheating - a man/woman who cheats
Philippines
November 21, 2008 3:55am CST
I have heard a lot of stories about cheating. A man cheating his girlfriend, a wife cheated by her husband. What will you do if someone cheated on you? Can you easily forgive the person who cheated you? Give me your honest opinion please. Godspeed...
4 responses
@NCgirl (487)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
It's really a case to case basis, depending on the level of how much you cheated on one person. Some can just let it go, and some is cursable, like you don't want to see that person anymore. But cheating will is always cheating, which is bad, not even tolerable relationship-wise. I was in a relationship before, it's been going smooth and all I thought my bf and I are doing ok, and next thing I know, he's dating someone else already without even breaking up with me. He never had the balls to even approach me and tell me, hey, I don't like hanging out with you anymore. But no, such a jerk! And it made me mad, and bitter, hated him a lot. It's been years, I would say yeah, I think I have forgiven him, but I have no interest of even making friends with him anymore. He burned the bridges, and no turning back, I am so done with him.
• United States
22 Nov 08
i had a boyfriend break up with my email. Men hate confrontation with women so they avoid it, least that's what i think. Don't really know there I think they really are from mars.
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
Good advice girl... I'll follow it.
• United States
21 Nov 08
I'd dump them. I had a boyfriend who cheated first he told me he slept with his ex-wife then he told me i couldn't give my really good friend who just happened to be a guy a hug! I mean come on. I am not going to be in that situation ever again so if they cheat their gone!
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
That's the spirit!! You go girl!
@ericajoyce (1746)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Hello Llonorra. I have experienced being cheated on by my 3 years relationship with my ex and he did it twice! When he first cheated on me, it was indeed painful but, after I week I forgive and we were back in each others arms, eventhough I was having doubt, he promised that he wouldnt do it again so, I believed him. After a few years, he did it again with a different girl. They were together for two months. I didn't forgive him on that because I trusted him and he broke it again. Its really hard to earn your trust to a person after he/she has cheated on you. They say a person deserves a second chance but for me, once a cheater is always a cheater, unless he has to prove to you that he has changed.
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
we almost have had the same experience and you're right a cheater is always a cheater unless the proved us wrong.
@lou_66 (909)
21 Nov 08
i think with this one each case needs to be treat differently. there can be many things that contributing to why the person cheated in the first -place. everbody is different. it would depend on the circumstances wether i would forgive somebody or not but i can easily forgive if i think somebody deserves it. happy mylotting
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
good point of view happy mylotting..