sensitive issues...over the phone, personally, thru text/letter?

i think if i was not afraid of the person i would rather say it in person.but if i was afraid of the person i would choose the phone.

Letter is the safest way and in the same time is very dangerous. It is safe because we can always arrange what we write, and what we want to tell them very carefully. There would always be enough time to edit, re-edit, re-re-edit, before actually send them to someone. But can you imagine if someone else read it? Personal talk is the opposite of this. You know you were talking to the right person. You know that no one would ever listen and it was end there, all the talking, unless someone record it in the tape. You can get the feedback right there and then, because you see the person personally. But you would also get the bad feedback, you never wanted to get. You can be nervous and just messed up everything and nothing can be undone. So, I think phone is in the middle of them, but it doesn't mean that phone is better. You can talk to the wrong person by phone. You can messed up too, if you're too nervous, but phone would reduce all he risk, because you didn't see the face, but you talk to them directly.