Career or Relationship?

Philippines
November 22, 2008 5:30am CST
If you're to choose, which one will it be? I'm in a situation where things seems to be getting so complicated. I thought relationship means give and take but why is my guy letting me choose? I really don't want to choose between my career and him because I love him so much and at the same time, I also love my work. Please enligthen me. I would really appreciate your advices and opinions about it.
1 response
@burnek (101)
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
I'm a guy and i feel awkward reacting to it but I couldnt help but respond. You're right about relationships working both ways. Both of you should work out a compromise somehow if you really care about each other. If that doesnt work then you would have to make a decision. And from what I see hes leaving you with no other choice. He's being selfish and has a total disregard for what you feel. It's not only your career he's wanting you to forget but your dreams and aspirations as well. You deserve someone who can understand. Just look around, plenty of them out there. :)