Reasons why your not being intimate?

@celestos (814)
United States
November 23, 2008 2:23am CST
I was curious what other members thought could be a reason why someone who was once intimate would not be now. I have thought about the fact that maybe this person is cheating but I have also took into mind that he works quite a bit more now then he use to. Any ideals why someone would not ever be in the mood?
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leomermarie
@leomermarie (108)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
Working situation and Age are few of the reason why a lover became less intimate. If he is your husband, start a romantic mood at home. In my case, Saturday night is our intimate moment. Our kids stay at their grandparents' house. At home, we ate early and have light diet. I wore sexy clothes and put on my perfume, which i use only on Satrurday night. If you are not married, wait for the right time.
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celestos
@celestos (814)
• United States
23 Nov 08
We may as well be married,it is in the works mainly financially waiting. he is still very loving and thoughtful it is just that he doesn't want to be intimate.Thank you for your reply:)
Curlann
@annierose (21977)
• United States
23 Nov 08
Aside from what you had mentioned, another possible reason is that he might have a problem which is so serious that he cannot open it up to you. Sometimes I am like that and then my boyfriend will be starting to worried. He will asks so many questions but sometimes all I can say is that I am busy but not mentioning to him about my problem.
celestos
@celestos (814)
• United States
23 Nov 08
do you mean something medical or just emotional maybe?
carmela0210
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
maybe he has lots of things that came on his mind and he neve had the heart to write more, its happining to me now, after a week i think this is my first day to post and respond again!!it wsa because i am not in the mood to write and sometimes i dont have something to share here!!happy lotting...