My World is just falling down !! What should i do??

India
November 24, 2008 8:18am CST
Recently since the past few weeks everything is going down .My health is going down, Becasue of that its affecting my studies, i have money issues, and 1 week back my dad also got admitted in the hospital becasue of low blood pressure. I really dont know what to do now? Its just realling going all down and down to the ground. Its like falling and breaking me down to peices. Why is this happening to me only ?? I really have no clue..
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16 responses
@savypat (20216)
• United States
24 Nov 08
What I'm going to tell you is not easy, First have faith that all things change, this includes bad things. Sit down with a paper and pencil in a quite place. Make two lists. Things going wrong and things going right. If you can't find anything right, list basics. I can see, I can breath,etc. you get the idea. Turn the paper over so you can't see it. Then sit back and breath deeply count 5 in, hold for 1, count 6 out, hold to 4 do this ten times. with eyes closed only thinking of breath. Now take a new piece of paper and make the lists again. do it slowly, If there is no difference do this all over again in a couple of hours. Now pay attention to what is going on around you. Just notice, don't judge. The next day do this again a couple of times. At anytime things seem really bad do the breath. Tell yourself, I am fine at this moment I have everything I need and breath. What you are doing is centering your mind, stopping it from running wild with negative energy. Remember all you can ever control is your mind and your reaction not anyone else's . Good luck to you. Blessings
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
29 Nov 08
I hope things are better by now, I'm sorry I'm so late responding. These things happen to everyone! You may not know it because most people don't share but when trouble comes, it comes as an avalanche more than a dribble. Sometimes you just have to grit your teeth and tell yourself you're going to get through the next hour and keep that up for days. Sometimes it gets so bad that you wish you could just lay down and die but you don't and you shouldn't. Everything passes, everything changes, and what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Never give up, never give in! Keep remembering that, accept the support of friends and family and slog on through it. The is a light at the end of the tunnel, I promise.
• Indonesia
25 Nov 08
it might not only happen to u, but u just didnt notice it..but ehm, sometime we do have a moments where we're like flying in the air, but then we like falling down to the ground..but thats life..i never meant to underestimate ur problems, but maybe u can try to be patience n face ur problems. coz the more u feel pitty bout urself, the more u cant see how the solution is n how to face the problems.. i hope everything will gets better with u geminipunk =)
@moneymaya (901)
• India
25 Nov 08
friend in this typicall situtation I can't provide you any situation because in this situation can suggest you only one thing that pray to god and It I hope it will definetly help you to face this typical situation, friend this is life and all we have to face such situtaion one day or other so only one power which can help us to understand and face and overcomer such a situation is to pray to god and remember god mercy every time ,
• China
25 Nov 08
hi,geminipunk,I'm really sorry to hear that,life is not always being good,we all have the hard time,last year I failed in my exam,it's a really important exam for me ,and I faced a really hard time to find a job ,and everyone in my class have find a job,but I missed the best time,so it's really have for me ,but now I have a job.I know life isn't always goes well,I think you can overcome it.
@onyike (5)
• Israel
25 Nov 08
for the past few days your health going down,first, the solution is want we called problem solving strategies,also remember your going down health is not a briage to your future success,as a student i want you to go into setting up a small scale business, that is becoming enterpreneur in order to sustain your life for challenges.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 08
I am sorry to hear that you are in problems but you are not the only one. I believe they are worse cases than yours. What ever it is this part of the cycle of life, there are times we are down and times we are up. Just pray that God will give you the strength to face your present problems.
• United States
25 Nov 08
well as everyone keeps telling me God wont give us more than we can handle And as i say wish he didnt trust me so much
@anaknitatay (1335)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
there will be times like that don't let it bring "you" down. sometimes it's not only a little rain that falls into your life but storms you just have to find strength to weather them. but think about this, if you feel you've hit rock bottom, there's no other way to go but up...
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
24 Nov 08
Hi geminipunk, Everyone has some rough times in life, but I can assure you that it won't continue forever. Be careful over your health and I hope you dad improves real soon. Things will improve for you in a little while . Blessings.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
24 Nov 08
Hi geminipunk. I am so sorry to hear that you are having bad times my friend. But the life is this way. When something bad happen it is followed for many bad things. But remember that good things isn't forever and bad things have a end too. You will start to have very good times soon. Try to stand this bad time and wait for the good times. My best wishes for you friend.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
24 Nov 08
Hi there gemini punk. I think we all have our bad moments and i can't tell you to just get over it as i know that is not easy, but i can advise you to focus on getting better, healthier because i think that if you put your mind into it it can happen sooner rather then latter. You should probably concentrate on the good things of your life right now, so that your spirit will go up again and thus you will be able to handle all your troubles. Hope to hear all the best from you ! Get well soon !
24 Nov 08
Hi geminipund, Sometimes in our life our life sucks, your health is poor because you are worried, also that is the reason your studies are going down hill, you are worried about your dad but don't he is in good hands, they will sort his blood pressure out, so get your self better by taking medications and drink plenty water and eat properley then you will be able to consintrate on your studies, remember under every dark clouds, there is a silver lining. Good luck. Tamara
• Canada
25 Nov 08
i am so sorry to hear that, my dear. Keep calm then you can face everything better... I wish the best things will come to you soon!
@zemlene (354)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
I am deeply touch by what you have been through this time my friend. At times, we are facing this trials in our life that are enormously pulling us down with its weight on our shoulders. We tend to let go and give it all up... but you must not give it up now! Everything happens with a reason. And Every problems has a solution. You must face it bravely and fight the hardest battle..Believe in yourself that you and your family will come out the victor in no time. Don't be afraid...this puzzle of your life has a solution. Have a wonderful time here in mylot. Wishes and prayers for your strength. God Bless!
@Humbug25 (12540)
24 Nov 08
Hi there geminipunk I am sorry to hear you are having a bad time of things at the moment. Unfotunately life deals us some tricky cards and we have to play them. When I am going through a hard time in life I try to think about the people that are a lot worse off than myself and things don't seem quite so bad. I hope things get better for you soon though