Who to chose - my family or my ex husbands family

Well, I always told my self that if I want to do something no matter there are so many complicated things possible things might happen I will still do it because I like to do it.. So, if I am in your position I will do something just to go in the birthday celebration of my kids grandfather.. No matter how expensive it is and how far it is I will still go because I want too but if I don't like to do then I can think of many excuses to myself so that I won't go.. I am not saying that your just making excuses to your self or to your ex-husband family just to not go there, all I am saying its up to your will on hos much you want to do.. If you really want to see them and to be with them to celebrate your father-in-law birthday then there are so many things you can do like you may call your ex-husband to fetch you or someone friend or your dad or anybody who can drive you to go there just not to ride buss since you've said that it is hard to get buss during Sunday.. You may spend you time with them for a long time if you want by going there the day before his birthday or go there very early.. Well, there's nothing to be worried about being with them in a few hours because those "few hours" can be meant so much for them.. They will really appreciate your effort to be there.. Well, its really up to you whether you really want to go.. As what they said, "If you really want to do it then there are so many reasons just to be able to achieve it but if you really don't want to do it then a millions of excuses you can think of"... I am sorry to say those thing! Again, its up to you if you really want to go.. Hope you're not mad with what I've said above.. Happy posting!