Is it right to have still a friendly communication with your former sweethearts?
November 25, 2008 8:21am CST
Everyone of us had some unforgettable moments in terms of our passed lovelife. The more it will be hard for us to forget when we thought and feeling sure enough that nobody can stop your destiny, not knowing unexpectedly that you were not meant for each other. From that day on you never had a communication anymore until time came that you both married from each others sweetheart. But I guess, world is really small to live in. Your communication with your both formers came-up unexpectedly due to our high form of communication technology nowadays. In your own point of view, is it still right to have a purely friendly- communication with both of your formers..? I think for me, its okay as long as you never put any malice on it...just a friendly communication...how about you, agree or dis-agree?
25 Nov 08
I'm on good terms with my former sweetheart. He's a wonderful person, but wasn't the right one for me or me him. Even though ending a relationship is hard, we both agreed that it wasn't going to work for the same reasons. We still communicate once in a while via the internet. Not frequently enough to be a problem, but enough so that we keep op on each others lifes milestones. He recently wed and I sent him a congratulations wishing all the best. I am truly happy for him. I think it's great that he found the right person. I loved him when we dated and breaking up didn't end the love, just the relationship. I always will love him as a person which included wanting the best for him and for him to be happy. From his pictures of his wedding on honeymoon trip on facebook, he looks very happy. His wife got a great guy. One of the best around.
25 Nov 08
thisis what has resally defeated mi coz i just cant bring my self to be friends with somebody you boke up with because she was cheating on me, any sight of her makes me want topuke but i just overcome it no to become unlawful,kilimanjaro80.
25 Nov 08
yes i understand... i think your case is different from what i supposed to mean, but i respect your sentiments before with your girlfriend, yes and i am so sorry for that, what i mean in my topic was just an incedent that you broke up without third party involved..yes I understand your feeling...but would you believe in saying FORGIVE and you shall be FORGIVEN? well i think past is past, learn to FORGIVE and FORGET..cheer up
26 Nov 08
thanks for the insight but anyway forgiveness is a must for me coz who else would want to carry somebody he doesnt want for ages to live in hurt and be always in a,bad mood life is good and must be lived but forgetting thats another vocabulary thats yet to be with me,bye.kilimanjaro80
25 Nov 08
I think it totally depends upon the kind of break-ups. As for me I didn't have that good break up with my ex. He was cheating on me and I caught him. So, without any further elongated fight and discussions I just left him. I wouldn't like to be friend with him again after what he did to me but I have to say that I have forgiven him for all the things he did cause it was him and it was my bad luck to have him. I have moved on and I wouldn't mind for the occasional hi and hello but I wouldn't want anything more.