2 Girls proposed Me HELP!! pls...

India
November 26, 2008 12:35am CST
guys i need ur help as i am in a great confusion ...today two girls proposed me and i treat both of em as my good frnd ....i dont think that i love anyone amongst them but i dont wont to hurt their feelings as well what shall i do ? please guide me.
3 responses
sweety10
@sweety10 (188)
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26 Nov 08
hey!! i can understand ur confusing...but do whatever your heart says...if u dont have any feeling for them then simply say that we are gud friends n i dont have that feeling for you...they will get hurt but if u dont have that feeling and u were in a relationship u wont be able to give that LOVE which they want from u and expect from u...that will much hurt her more than that...so take your time...ALL THE BEST...n keep smiling ...:)
iamdiwas
@iamdiwas (22)
• India
26 Nov 08
thax for ur reply but i m just worried about the consequences after my refusal ...i dont wont that they commit something ill.
sweety10
@sweety10 (188)
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27 Nov 08
hey!! try 2 convience them in a soft manner so that they can understand u better..n dont break their frndship otherwise they can move any wrong step...so be careful while convience them...
iamdiwas
@iamdiwas (22)
• India
27 Nov 08
yeah i am really trying da same.... than you for guidin...me
zshornick
@zshornick (113)
• United States
26 Nov 08
If they are both good friends, under what circumstances did they propose to you? And do they know each other?
iamdiwas
@iamdiwas (22)
• India
26 Nov 08
no they don't know each other and yes they are good friends and i use sort out their relationship problems at one time.
gemjeweled
@gemjeweled (133)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
I understand. Having two good girls to propose to you will really drive you excited and not knowing what to do. Do you have any feelings with one of them? Then you should go for the girl that you like. If you don't feel anything for them, then I guess you should find the girl that will truly make you happy. You have to tell them outright that you don't feel anything for them. Don't provide false hope. Tell them that what you feel for them is just plain friendship and nothing special. Expect them to get hurt, it will not be avoided.