Our family is becoming a foster family

@nixxi76 (3191)
Canada
November 27, 2008 1:21pm CST
About three months ago my hubby and I were driving the truck and we were listening to the radio. Suddenly, a comercial came on the radio saying " There are twice the amount of children staying in hotel rooms waiting for homes to go to." My heart immediately went out to the boys and girls that don't have a stable home to go to. I also thought about their education and living atmosphers. Not soon after, I phoned for some information about becoming a foster parent. About a week or so I called we received a booklet on how to become a foster parent. I kept thinking about our space in the house and how we didn't have any. November came around and our family moved from a 2 bedroom to a 5 bedroom. It's like my dreams came true! I finally phoned the Child and Family Services and got in to see a worker about taking a child or two in. We filled out many forms then were invited to do an oreintation for two days. We attended the two evenings for these classes on what foster parenting is all about. They even shared a little movie and pictures about abused children and where the families originate from. Very interesting I should add. My family and I are so very ready to accept unfortunite children into our family and treat them as if they were one of our own. I also realize that this may come with some challenges but we're willing to overcome those and help build stucture and stability in the child's life. I know it will take sometime to let the child adjust on their own and it will seem difficult and unfamiliar to them so patience and gentleness is what I"m willing to have for hand outs. Are you a foster parent? Would you ever be one if you could?
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Nov 08
Some people are cut out to be a foster parent and looks like you have all the right thoughts to do it. I loved having kids in my home all the time we werent foster parents but did have kids that run away from home stay with us till they could go back home. Of course thier parents knew where they were and could come get them any time but non ever did. As far as I know only one ended up in jail but tat was years later. DOnt know what went wrong with him as I thought he was a pretty good kid .He was being raised by his father . So that might say something. Never knew exatly why they left home we wouldnt talk about it fi they didnt want to. But if they had problems we would set at night around the table and talk we said it was our family time to talk. Sure miss these kids now but all grown up and gone hteir own ways.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
1 Dec 08
well I loved it but being a foster parent ya are under a microscope I felt they might not have liked how I did things and I wouldnt have felt right when they had good parents they just had thier scubbles lol
@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
29 Nov 08
Wow Lakota! You should've have been a foster parent forsure. When I was a teenager, I had some friend's who had parents that did the same as you did. I really felt at the time that they cared a lot about kids. I can tell you do too. Thanks for your comment
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
28 Nov 08
Congratulations to your family! I think it is a great thing you are doing. I have never been a foster parent. I am not sure if it is something I would do or not. I love my kids, but they are a handful. I am not sure I would be able to stay sane adding another child to the mix.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
28 Nov 08
If I didn't have my hubby I wouldn't do it either but he's really great with children and they look up to him. With responsibilities, that's where he's an expert. Thanks for your comment
• United States
27 Nov 08
I commend you and anyone else who does this. There are so many children who need the love, support, and stability of someone who cares. I about people who do it for the money and they don't think of the emotional status of the children. I hope that it works well for you and you become an important role in the lives of these children. You will be a blessing to them and their future. Please keep me updated and let me know how it goes. Your more than welcome to add me as a friend.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
27 Nov 08
Thank you for the lovely comment. I wished that our family was already passes the licensing process and had the children now. My hubby and I are so excited and anxious about having them here. Not to mention my son will finally have a sibling to play with lol. My hubby is not able to have anymore children and we've been wanting one of our own but that's not going to happen anytime soon. What could be more precious than helping a kid by filling him up with love and happiness? As I know he/she will do the same for us. Thanks for your comment