What Do You Think?
By kerriannc
@kerriannc (4279)
Jamaica
November 28, 2008 12:32pm CST
Coming to MYLOT on a daily basis contributing to your friends discussions. There discussions becomes active that by the 28th of the month, he/she can announced that MYLOT payment has already made. How do you feel about this?
I will tell you my feelings and then we can discuss. I feel disappointed because I know that I participate in my friends discussions alot but whenever I wrote mines there are no friend's responses. I feel disappointed because I thought that I have friends here in MYLOT but can assume that it is the opposite. Being active here in MYLOT does not mean going to other persons discussions only but having those friends coming and contributing to your's too.
What is the meaning of friendship? To me it means encouraging, supporting and loving those you take as friend.
This is not a rant only my opinion.
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8 responses
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
28 Nov 08
I think it would be nice if friends always answered my discussions. Some do, some don't. I can only guess that sometimes they have no answer or cannot think of anything to say to the discussion. Normally I am one of those that has made payout before the month is over. This month won't be that way, but it's okay. It's not like mylot is making us rich here 
I will just have an easier time making payout next month 
I will just have an easier time making payout next month 1 person likes this
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
28 Nov 08
Hello fwidman, sorry you didn't reach payout. I didn't reach either but such is life. Truth you cannot get rich here in MYLOT but seeing your friend contributing to your discussion make you feel nice (at least for me). I love the colour of your shoes.
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@michaelnbc (100)
• China
29 Nov 08
friendship is based on giving as much as receiving.hi,there,it's not your problem,take it easy,you have done enough,and i think your hard work will be paid off oneday!
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@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
Well, I guess there are ocasssions that our friends could be busy or perhaps many are posting and when you make a post and many other follow, your friends may not be able to see that you have posted. I am not very active here since I do have other things to do. So in my case I don't really mind if I don't reach payout that easy. But I do hope that you will reach payout everytime the end of the month comes.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Dec 08
Thanks for your response. You see payment is not my reasons for writing this discussion. I have only make payment two times and it is not a problem to me. It just that I enjoyed responding to my friends discussions and really would love to see them coming to mines as well.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
29 Nov 08
My dear don't expect all your friends to be very supportive of you because you can't be sure that all your topics are interesting to your friends! I for one can't respond to all the topics posted by my friends because not all their topics appeal to me. I would not want to respond unless I am sure I have something sensible to share. However I have a handful of supportive friends which I support all the way because it so happened that all our interests match and they are also supporting all my posts without fail. I don't post too many topic. I only post one topic a day and sometimes none but I'm glad that each time I post they always respond to me so I do the same to these supportive friends of mine.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Dec 08
This is the reason salonga that I choose the interests that my friends are in. People, Religion, Bible, People, Mylot etc are the ones that I met all of my friends. I went to their discussions and they requested friendship from me. Or if I see that I have been visiting them more than one time I request friendship. You see salonga not to expect friends not to come to your discussions when you choose the interest they are active in seems as nonsense to me.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 08
hey,
well, i only answer to the discussions.. i only started with one discussion though...
but, i have one question concerned me after reading your post; does that mean, mylot will pay you more if you start discussion and have ppl answering rather than participating in answering random discussions? i thought, mylot will pay you based on the number of answers you do!
smiley,
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Dec 08
Hi smiley, the more active you are here in MYLOT is the more money you made. If you are here for the money then you will make more. I am here because I enjoy the ambivalence of the community. It was through this community I gradually come out of my depression.
You see the secret of MYLOT is (1) wrote discussions that are interactive (a) answer back to the responder with more than "thank you for your response". One line does not cut it. (2) always be honest in your responses to other persons discussions (a) you can draw on experiences personally or from what you have read or hear. There are persons here who prefer honesty than make up lies.
MYLOT is a wonderful community which one can learn and pass on knowledge. All the best.
Kerry
Kerry
@mokbul (616)
• Singapore
29 Nov 08
You are right kerriannc. I do visit my friends posting frequently and post my comments, except for those discussions, on which I have no idea or my posting may be stupid one.
I believe members friend's circle should do the same. But again it si true for all the cases is that the discussion is sensible one and really deserves a comment.
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
30 Nov 08
Personally, I think we all can say we have Friends in here we know we can depend on responding back to a lot of our discussions, and then there will be the Friends who will never choose to respond back as well. Personally I have not let it bother me, as there are a lot of people on here. You just need to find people who will continue to Trust you and believe in you, and continue posting and responding in here, and good things will happen. Wishing you the Best.
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
28 Nov 08
I understand how it feels, I have the same problem. I create discussion and at times never see any responses and it is sad.
So I now take more time to respond to dicussions instead.
I do have to give credit to 3 friends that always responds to my discussion. SO I also make sure to make an effort and respond to theirs too.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Dec 08
Hi ch88ss how are you doing haven't seen anything from you since of lately. I am glad that you are still around. Thank you for responding.
