Susupicion

Not all girls do it. I never have because I know when a relationship is working and when its not. Many of them have been brought up by their mothers to believe that all men are cheaters and that if a man looks at another woman he is thinking of cheating. It is not true but we are talking about brainwashing here. Also girls who have no self confidence are constantly worried that if their boyfriend looks at another woman then he is thinking of other girls and not her. There is also an element of jealousy involved. Many girls think that other women are more attractive and if their boyfriend is looking at someone else he will drop her for some one else. By the way it is not just women. I have known men who treat their girlfriends the same way and the jealousy that comes from this can be dangerous. One girl I knew had to get a restraining order to keep such a boyfriend away in the end as he started stalking her and suspecting her of cheating and they were barely dating.

i dont understand it myself and im a woman. as my hubby used to say, hey, im married not blind it was always ok with me. even when he made a comment about parts.

I think by nature girls may be more suspicious. But have seen that many times the guys are also very much like that. I have seen those myself.

Guys can check out other girls and I can check out other guys. It is a two way street. The way I look at it is he (or I) can look at the menu, he (or I) just can't order off of it.

I think that because these boys couldn' t give a sense of security to their girlfriends. and there are still exist some boys who like to doubt their girlfriend is not loyal to them.