Susupicion

India
November 29, 2008 3:13am CST
Why is it always that girls in relationship always suspect their boyfriends check out other girls. Lol even mine does even when i don't. I seriously don't understand why? can anyone tell me?
5 responses
@sharra1 (6341)
• Australia
30 Nov 08
Not all girls do it. I never have because I know when a relationship is working and when its not. Many of them have been brought up by their mothers to believe that all men are cheaters and that if a man looks at another woman he is thinking of cheating. It is not true but we are talking about brainwashing here. Also girls who have no self confidence are constantly worried that if their boyfriend looks at another woman then he is thinking of other girls and not her. There is also an element of jealousy involved. Many girls think that other women are more attractive and if their boyfriend is looking at someone else he will drop her for some one else. By the way it is not just women. I have known men who treat their girlfriends the same way and the jealousy that comes from this can be dangerous. One girl I knew had to get a restraining order to keep such a boyfriend away in the end as he started stalking her and suspecting her of cheating and they were barely dating.
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• India
30 Nov 08
But most of the guys r hardly worried about such stuff. I mean i knw my girlfriend. She wont do such a thing. So m not worried :P.
@bunnybon7 (43832)
• Holiday, Florida
29 Nov 08
i dont understand it myself and im a woman. as my hubby used to say, hey, im married not blind it was always ok with me. even when he made a comment about parts.
• India
30 Nov 08
lol. u vr jealous weren't you :D my frnd did dat once and his gf hit him. lmao. dat was a funny sight.
@mindym (979)
• United States
29 Nov 08
Guys can check out other girls and I can check out other guys. It is a two way street. The way I look at it is he (or I) can look at the menu, he (or I) just can't order off of it.
• China
29 Nov 08
I think that because these boys couldn' t give a sense of security to their girlfriends. and there are still exist some boys who like to doubt their girlfriend is not loyal to them.
@subha12 (18452)
• India
29 Nov 08
I think by nature girls may be more suspicious. But have seen that many times the guys are also very much like that. I have seen those myself.