What will i do to make my money back?plz..share!!

South Korea
November 30, 2008 9:49am CST
i have a friend, the first time i met him is that he is very responsible person and i really impressed that he is a good person...he ask me to join him in some business...(dry goods) and it turn to be okay..but suddenly he keeps on asking money or lending money from me and he owes 600dollars to me..its already 6 months from now but still he keeps on promising to me what will i do? plz share..
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7 responses
• India
30 Nov 08
I think in business you just need not not think about anything or anyone..you just go straightly to him and ask about the money that you gave to him and ask the money..i reckon thaths the best way to do it and dont ask him indirectly..happy mylotting..
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• South Korea
30 Nov 08
that was great thanks..have a nice day
@egdcltd (12060)
30 Nov 08
Unfortunately, you may never get it back (from personal experience). Something like 90% of businesses fail in the first five years, and 90% of the rest within 10. And that's in good times, which we are currently definitely not in.
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• South Korea
30 Nov 08
actually the money is a personal loan that he does to me..thank you..have a nice day
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@michfroi (413)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
he is your friend and im sure you know him very well because if not, he cant be your friend. You should know his capability of paying his debt. Maybe he's facing a big problem that's why he cant keep his word in paying you... but if you are really in doubt talk to him. ask him to tell you the truth, if he had the plan to pay you if not, then sorry for that but you have to accept it and serve this as a lesson to you...
• South Korea
1 Dec 08
yeah..i know him but now i ant catch his attitude anymore,,thanks have a nice day..
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
1 Dec 08
Hello marketing friend. I am so sad that you are put into such a position that you have no idea what to do to deal with this business friend. Well, I think that you could ask him directly for the money back and give him some time to prepare for the money that needs to be returned to you. Be brave to ask him for it. If you feel shy, then you have no idea when you will get it back. Good luck to you.
• China
1 Dec 08
Good evening, marketing friend. Thank you for the best response. I am looking forward to your good news. Good luck to you.
• South Korea
1 Dec 08
yeah,i agree with you and even though im ashmed to ask him about it, i have to tell him..thanks i appreciate it.have a nice day..
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@ellie333 (21016)
30 Nov 08
Hi Marketing, There is a saying 'neither a borrower or lender be' and this is the surest way to lose friends, over money. I would request that all the money owed to you is repaid by a certain date and meanwhile please do not allow him to borrow anymore. He may be a nice person but a spendthrift and with others money too. Once you have received your money back (if you receive back) do not ever lend him any, not even $10 ever again. Learn from it and move on. If he says he cannot repay $600 all at once devise a repayment plan in instalments to make it easier but be prepared to have lost this amount forever. I do so hope you get it back though. Huggles. Ellie :D
• South Korea
1 Dec 08
yes, i already told him abouy that but it seems that he already change his friendlyness to me...thanks ellie have a nice day.
• India
30 Nov 08
well i don't know about the mentality of your friend so i cannot suggest you anything .. but i can tell you one thing ... if you really believe him that he is saying the truth then you don't need to worry about anything. anyways alternatively also you can inquire about how the business is going on and decide if you can believe him or not.
• South Korea
1 Dec 08
thanks for your concern..have a nice day
• India
30 Nov 08
hi,don't worry keep on try,,,,,,,one good comment from me is don't believe anubody when money comes in the matter even friends, so pl once again request ur friend for returning the money back,else if u have any evidence is with for given money to ur friend u just complaint to the cop,that is the best way from my side.... take care
• South Korea
1 Dec 08
thank you i appreciate that..have a nice day