My friend and "bad boys"
By JenInTN
@JenInTN (27514)
United States
November 30, 2008 8:36pm CST
My friend is constantly choosing men that want to use her and leave her for dead! The decent guys that show interest...she blows them off and chases off after the bad boy! I understand the challenge issue and have liked a few bad boys myself but this has been a cycle for her for a few years now! Why? She says she wants a companion but the only ones she wants don't want to be settled. I don't know what else I can say to her to help her see she's not giving anyone else a chance. Any suggestions or experiances?
2 responses
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
yeah, some girls are attracted to bad boys image. they love to be with them. the thrill and challenge of changing the bad boys to good boys seem to attract them more. the good boys are seen as boring and dull. but the bad boys are always fun to be with. they do outrageous things. i have friends who love to be with bad boys. they are not interested in good boys because boys like that don't offer them anything new. they are so predictable, accordingto my friends.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I agree..I think it's the thought she can change em...but what happens if she does...she'll be bored again. I understand because I like em too but she's gotten to the point it's unhealthy. You have to love yourself a little and she just keeps asking to be treated badly.
@chiaeugene (2225)
• China
1 Dec 08
there is this saying that if the guys is not too good and decent, woman dun like but woman likes man who is a litlte bit indecent and i think you and your friends believe in this too. I also realised that some woman likes to do the impossible or take on challenges thinking that she would be able to influence the man and convince him that she is the right one. But man have different thinkings in a relationships and views on marriage unlike woman so unless the woman can see thru or understand this point, then they are always on a losing end.
