Life has been so unfair to me - Wny me?

@maapav (729)
India
December 2, 2008 12:20am CST
How many of you thought like this and how many times? But do you actually think that you are only the person who is suffering pain and yours pain is greater than everyone else's pain. What do you do at that point of time? Do you try to ignore it or to overcome it? Or what else? How do you fight that situation?
4 responses
@SultanaH (80)
• Hungary
2 Dec 08
Believe me, millions of people out there feel the same way. We all feel that our problem is harder than what other faces. In fact it may not be so. But since it is our problem it will always be the most important to us. There's a Hebrew saying that goes somewhat like this,"This too shall pass". Simple right? But it made me feel better usually. Because everything in life shall pass, even the problem that you are facing today.
@marcialoyd (1173)
• United States
2 Dec 08
I have had that feeling. However I quickly shake it off. My mom taught me once when I was child a quote. "I once cried because I had no shoes until I met the man who had no feet." In other words, no matter how bad you have it, there is someone out there that is in a worse situation then you.
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
I used to think that way before but, the saying goes on, "That's what life is.". I had no choice but to deal with the consequences, all the problems should be faced with challenges, because life will be meaningful that way. Struggling life itself molds me into a better person and I tend to learn new things but never enough.
@bellebads (740)
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
it actually happened to me when i got 2 miscarriages and until now i don't have kids yet. during that time i feel so weary, so upset asking why is this happening to me,of all people why me why not those people who chose to abort their babies are the ones should experience this? then i started to pray and ask for guidance, later on i realized maybe god has better plans for me. maybe it's not yet time. i'm still hoping and praying that in god's time i will be able to have a baby, and i hope it will be soon.