Why do some men refuse to preform oral, but expect to receive it?

United States
December 2, 2008 3:55pm CST
There have been so many friends of mine who talk about thier guys that want BJ's, but refuse to go return the favor. I really don't think I could expect something from my husband if I wasnt willing to do the same. Any guys who "don't" wanna comment? OR how about the ladies who give but don't receive? I understand this could be a real delicate subject. So I would really understand if no one wants to Fess up so to speak.
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@tuxirou (16)
• Germany
5 Dec 08
I guess I am lucky~~~my boy is always glad to give oral,of course I do the same.And I can tell he enjoys and does know how to do it well~lol
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• United States
5 Dec 08
Good for you, I am gald that some of us enoy both giving and receiving :0) I think it is a personal choice, but If a guy wants it, he muct be willing to give it too.
@syankee525 (6293)
• United States
2 Dec 08
myself i will return the favor to my wife. but i guess some guys won't do it maybe she's not clean and it might smell ...
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• United States
2 Dec 08
well sometime, they might be clean but still there could be like a smell down there. i knew a girl like that, she shower and stuff but smelled down there. it was like ewww...
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• United States
2 Dec 08
Personally, I have had good experience with men giving oral to me. I think some of the men out there don't like to give oral.. especially if the women does not "groom" herself properly. I think women should be nice and tidy down there if they want their man to give oral. That being said, the man should be nice and tidy too if he wants to receive oral!
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• United States
2 Dec 08
Thanks for you response. I agree that it a guy wants it he has to give it. I think it is a two way street. My husband enjoys giving it I think more than receiving.. and I am happy that is is so talanted at it! (not many are) :-)