how to express your feeling to a girl that you love??

@marwen (52)
United States
December 3, 2008 10:01am CST
hi.i'm in love with someone.but the problem that i'm not really good at talking to other about love.i don't know how to express my feeling to that person...what should i do??could you help me.
3 responses
• Canada
3 Dec 08
If you love this person that means that you should feel at peace speaking with them. Are you dating them or just know them from afar. Love is a strong word and if used on the wrong person it could cause you a lot of anquish. How long have you known this person and have you ever been more involved then just friends? Have you already taken your 'friendship' to another level via holding hands becoming boyfriend and girlfriend? IF not I strongly suggest you take things slow with this person. I'm the type of person to always say what I feel when I feel it but you have to choose when the right time is. First you have to build up that relationship so that person isn't caught off guard by you all of a sudden saying "I love you". If you have that type of relationship already established most people in any circumstances love to be swept off their feet. If this is a female perhaps you could do something romantic and take them out to a dinner then maybe give them a card with huge lettering I love you. Or you could write up a poem and slip it ot her. Or simply say it to her while looking in her eyes at the restaurant or even sitting down for a movie. Make it personal and look into their eyes when you say it. It will be the best "I Love you" ever :D If it's a male then still make it personal. Romantic dinner for two candle light something like that. Usually when the moods set its a little easier to say to the person. The main thing to say to you is to have confidence in yourself and what you feel. At the end of the day that will be your main source of power. Best of luck :)
• Canada
3 Dec 08
Remember this. If you have trouble saying it. Show it then when your done showing your love you may find it easier to say. Or perhaps once you've written it down for them it will be easier to say as well.
@marwen (52)
• United States
6 Dec 08
hi.thanks for your ideas.they did really helped me.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 08
Its easy just go to her and give her a kiss. If she love you too she will continue the kiss if she doesn't she will slap you. Its risky but it worth for a try don't you think so ??lols
• Tunisia
5 Dec 08
you have to go to the girl you like and tell her directly about your feelings !!! then get ready to take a punsh :))
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
Well if you can't say it, express it in your actions. Action speaks louder then words. Just know her better start with a hi and hello. Just being near her and giving her importance, listening to her is enough that your showing your feelings. Start with I like you then saying I love you. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!