Do you ever asked your friends,if your man/girl,is the right person for you?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
5 responses
@eynjel05 (444)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
I will definitely not let their advices influenced my way of thinking. If I like someone, I definitely ask my close friends of what are their perceptions about that guy. They usually gave me advice especially when they have ideas of what kind of attitude does that person have.
But asking me if I would let their advice be my decision? No, I will not. I have my own beliefs to be followed and I will do whatever I like.;-) Happy posting!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
Thanks keep on smiling! Well usually we have dinner at home with one of his closest friend who is one of her advisers. But his happy for us. He was already telling us can I be one of the witnesses in your wedding. I can't wait anymore to see my best friend to get married. Cause usually she says No. But I'll really insist for her to say yes. You take care! Keep on smiling! God bless!
@sarawaken (360)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 08
For me, my boy friend is the perfect one; he love me and take care of me . Although sometime he showed bad mood to me, but i understand he just wanted to release his tension.
@sivanj (1263)
• India
4 Dec 08
well if it is the case with you, it is the case with others as well. i have not loved anyone. so no experience of mine. whatever i have seen from my friends go close to what you say. so you are a very good sample representing the features of the general population
happy mylotting.
@AmandaBarnhart (671)
• Canada
4 Dec 08
For me personally I think that that is a choice everyone has to make. I am skeptical about people going to their friends for this type of thing because by them having to ask that means they already have their answer. When we ask other people if we're right for them it often means we are searching for someone to give us the reasons why you belong together and why the relationship should carry on. To me it's a last ditch effort to get rid of doubts that you already had.
I would never go to my friends for many reasons. The primary one being is they dont' see us ALL the time, nor do they live the life I live, feel the feelings I feel and just overall know me. I know me they dont' and I know my fiance they don't. How are they going to properly assess the relationship when they're not the ones in the relationship.
My personal opinion is no I wouldn't go to them. If ever I contemplated doing that I'd have my answer before I even asked them the question. If you can't see the qualities of why you should be with your SO or if the persons right for you then how will others be able to tell for you?
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
Well usually we have dinner here at the house with some friends. But usually what they ask now is when is the wedding bells? It's soon next year! Usually I am closer to her friends I enjoyed talking to them especially her best friend Jhay who is her confidante. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!






