Is it time to put Taz to sleep?

@II2aTee (2559)
United States
December 4, 2008 11:24am CST
Wanted: Thoughts, comments, advice. Here’s the situation. I grew up in farm country. When I was 10 years old I got my very first pet, an orange tiger cat who I named Taz. Since we lived in the country he was an inside/outside cat who came and went as he pleased, but he LOVED being outdoors. Over the years, the neighbors nicknamed him “King of the Hill” because he would wander all over the place, greeting the neighbors, hunting mice and birds, and just being all around everyone’s favorite cat. When I turned 17 I moved out of my parent’s house and into an apartment with my boyfriend in the city. I tried to take Taz with me, but he absolutely hated being confined indoors. He was miserable, and I actually had to take him to the vet because he was showing signs of depression. I decided it would be best for him if he went back to the country to live with my parents so he could be happy again. Two years later my parents moved out of the house in the country and into a house just outside of the city. Once again, they tried to take Taz with them, but once again he started showing signs of depression – loss of fur, loss of appetite, bad behavior. So my mom took Taz back to the country and worked out a deal with our closest neighbor, John. John said that he would look out for Taz and leave him some food on his porch every day. So in essence, Taz was left to his own devices, now a full fledged “outside cat”. This worked out GREAT. Taz got to stay in the country where he was happy, and our old neighbor would keep an eye on him for us. Over the past few years I have gone out to the country every once in a while to check up on him and I just have to tell you – I have never met a more self-sufficient animal. Taz currently weighs about 27lbs, he lives outside all year round, he hunts, he relaxes, and he reigns over the hill like a king. That is until a few months ago, when John moved to Florida, and Johns father moved in to the house. The other day I got a call from Johns father (who I hardly know) and he told me that he doesn’t want Taz coming around anymore. I don’t know why – I think he’s just a grumpy old man who needs something to complain about. But in any case, this man told me he was going to stop leaving food out for Taz. Keep in mind, by now, Taz is about 17 years old in human years. He has survived on his own with little help from humans for the past 10 years. It really is remarkable. So I called my father and told him the news. My father suggested that we put Taz to sleep because he’s afraid that Taz will not survive through the winter if no one puts food out for him. But in my mind, (and I could be wrong), Taz can take care of himself – he has taken care of himself all this time. He hunts mice, moles, birds… I think he even kills woodchucks. He’s a survivalist. In my opinion, Taz will survive even if this jerk decides to stop leaving food out for him. But my Dad doesn’t think so. My Dad thinks Taz will starve to death over the winter and he thinks the best option would be to put Taz to sleep. So what would you do in my situation? I live in the city with two indoor cats right now, and I cant bring Taz to live with me because we already know he hates being an inside cat, plus, he would kill my two cats that live with me. The only place in the world that Taz will be happy is out on the old farmstead. In my opinion, I would hate to see Taz put to rest. He is 17 years old and I think after that long he deserves a natural death, living the few years he has left in the only place in the world he knows is home. But do you think my father is right? Do you think the humane thing to do would be to put Taz to sleep just to make sure he doesn’t starve to death during the winter? What would you do???
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
4 Dec 08
OMG Tee..what a dilemma!!! Taz is what we call a mouser here. He can take care of himself if everybody would just leave him alone. He does NOT totally depend on anybody to feed him so the change to completely depending on himself would NOT be that big of a deal to him. Cats are very resilient!!! One question...Is there not another neighbor willing to feed him??? What about the people who moved into the old homestead??? My guess is Taz will bug the chit out of the old man anyway as that is where he is used to eating. The old f@rt could just throw out his scraps of food from his meals. I'm sure he doesn't eat EVERY bite. If Taz has made it to 17 without starving, my guess is he'll make it another 5 years or so. If he was ill or losing weight, I'd worry about him. But at 27 pounds, he's healthy as a horse!!! Can your Dad not run out about 1 day a week & drop off some food??? Hell, where is this place??? If it's close enough, I'd go out once a week & give him a special dinner & A big HUGGG!!! Maybe contact the local animal shelter/humane society/vet. Surely someone would feed this poor guy!!! Why the hell would your Dad want to put a perfectly healthy cat to sleep??? Just check on him off & on through the winter months. If he starts to get sick, putting him down might be the answer. But for now, I'd DEFINITELY SAY NO FREAKIN WAY!!!
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
4 Dec 08
Another thought... pyewacket is big into animal rescue. Maybe she could put you in touch with someone in your area willing to feed him & let him stay where he is!!!
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
4 Dec 08
Yes I hope Pye stopps in to this discussion to give me her two cents. And as far as going out once a week to feed him, im sure my Dad is not up for that. I might just do that myself. The "country" where I grew up is about 45 min drive from my house in the city. And the house is on a hill with dirt roads, and they are just a MESS during the winter. They are sparsy plowed, and rarely salted. You see now why I moved away lol! There is actually no one living in our old house. My father is basicly sitting on the land... for what reason, I dont know. Maybe he wants to retire back to the farm one day. I'm not sure why he hasent sold it. Thats a GREAT idea about asking another neighbor to watch out for Taz. There are only 2 problems with that. One, the closest neighbor (besides this grumpy old coot) lives about a mile down the road. Secondly, I'm afraid that if something isnt done, this guy is going to call the pound and report Taz as a stray. The thought of Taz being put to sleep in some kennel breaks my heart. So I'm praying that if we DO find a solution, this bitter old guy wont go behind our backs and get rid of Taz altogether. I just dont understand people who dont like animals. How can you just STOP feeding a 17 year old cat (who, by the way, has lived on that land MUCH longer than he has.) Furthermore, if he hates animals so much - WHY THE FLIP DID HE MOVE TO THE COUNTRY???? ERG!!
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
8 Dec 08
LM - You helped ease my anxiety soo much. Thank you! I have a happy ending to report. Please see my response to Pye's response a few posts down. XXOXOXO Tee
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
4 Dec 08
purposefully killing this amazing little beast on the off chance he might go hungry is pathetically rediculous.. and shouldnt even be considered. no disresepct for yer father or anything Tee, but this is truly absurd!! i think the only thing yud need worry bout with Taz, is possibly his safety from this neighbor who has decided he doesnt want him around. if possible, relocate him a little further away from "civilization" somewhere you know there is a water supply, and he will be fine.. and more importantly, HAPPY. let him live out his life in the way he is content.. and dying free. not strapped to metal table with a vets needle in his shoulder.
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
4 Dec 08
Well I have decided that I will probaly be taking a trip once a week to leave heaps of food for him.. but I am still afraid this old geezer will take matters into his own hands. I may take you up on your offer. 5 Hours isnt that bad. It would be a nice excuse to get together after all this time, at least. And I would be at peace knowing hes with you. The only thing is that he loves his "hill". I'd be worried relocating him would stress him out. I'll let you know after I talk it over with Brian and my Dad.
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
4 Dec 08
Wild Thing - shes been prowling my yard for the last 7 years or so.. made best friend with my psycho mutt, and thrives out here. you wouldnt need to worry over Taz.
honey.. i live in the center of gods knows how many acres of swamp land and hay fields. scattered farms and houses.. horses and cows. if he needed to be indoors.. i couldnt make this offer as ive already got 4 indoor critters as it is.. but outside with just a watchful eye and a bowl of food? that i already do anyway for the wild thing that hunts my yard already? (see photo below) it isnt much of a hardship for me. lemme know hun *squish*
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
4 Dec 08
read the other comments and responses here.. and im annoyed. you and brian live about 5ish hours away from mal and i.. if you wish, yall come to dinner, bring Taz.. and i will personally see to it he has food on my porch on a daily, and he can wander and hunt the woods around here as he pleases until the Fates decide its his time to cross.
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• United States
5 Dec 08
Aw Tee! Now I know why you needed cheering up yesterday. What a tough decision to make. Personally I'd leave him to his own devices and let nature take it's course. He's taken care of himself this long. Just take food up when you can. Holy bobcat Batman.. at 27 lbs I don't think he'll starve. Just do what you think is best hon. ((Hugs))
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
8 Dec 08
I have some good news, and a happy ending!! See my response to Pye :)
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
4 Dec 08
Did someone mention my name around here?? LasyMarissa sent an urgent email to me...Okie dokie Yes I've been involved with pet rescues and have helped people out, and hopefully when I can give good advice. From what you're saying here Taz is a "feral" or wild cat, though probably friendly ( or is he afraid of people??). Nope, I don't think you should put him done, as it seems he's been doing all right for himself all these 17 years and the fact that his a good hefty cat and not starved sounds like he's been doing all right for himself. It's a shame your father though keeps pushing the idea of putting Taz down and that his father has no intention of continuing feeding him on the porch..Taking him to a shelter is definitely out...due to his age they would probably opt to put him down anyway...older cats are hard to adopt out as everyone prefers cute cuddly kittens...and since you indicated he is an outdoor cat even if you did take him to a shelter and they didn't put him down, he'd be miserable. There could be one solution...I have no idea where you are..but there in many places there will usually be a pet rescuer (or rescuers) who are in the "feral" cat rescue business...many will do the TNR concept...that is "trap, neuter (if the cat isn't neutered) and return or take the cat into their own feral cat colony...this is where rescuers will "trap" a feral cat and release it into a feral colony which is outdoors and will provide for the cat, that is they will feed all the cats in their feral cat colony...so will "provided" for by people, the cat will still be able to have an outdoor life. One organization you might contact is Alley Cat Allies..they are a specific organization that might be able to provide info of where the nearest feral cat colony and rescuer is in your area...their website is here http://www.alleycat.org/NetCommunity/Page.aspx?pid=191 {Warning: This is NOT a referral link but a link to Alley Cat Allies} You might even have luck looking up pet rescuers via Petfinder.com and/or Pet-Ark.com as they too might list cat feral colonies as well..whichever you would have to contact whichever rescuer and either you or the rescuer themself will have to in essence "trap" the cat to take to their cat colony. Also don't be surprised if they ask a fee for this service as it's rare that any rescuer will take a cat for free. Hope this info helps...PM me and at least tell me where you are and maybe I can do some hunting up of info..in the meantime..please do contact Alley Cat Allies...they might be you best bet. Good luck
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
10 Dec 08
Wow that is really fantastic news. I'm glad you got things worked out and your dad agreed to take in Taz--what a happy ending....and it sounds like Taz took over your dad's home right away..LOL
@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Pye thank you sooo much for thsi info. But I do have some good news to report!! Friday night my Dad and I spoke on the phone. We worked out a really good deal. If Taz was in good shape, then my Father agreed to let him live the rest of his natural life as an inside/outside cat at his house, as long as I foot all his vet bills and half the food and litter bills. On Saturday, we drove out to the country together to see Taz and decide what to do. When we got there, he was snoozing on Johns porch. I said "Taz kitty kitty kitty!" like I used to when I was a kid and his ears PEARKED right up and he looked right at me. If he didnt weight 30 lbs I'll bet he would have jumped into my arms! Johns father came outside to say goodbye to Taz, and I was finally able to meet him. On the drive out to the country I had a whole LIST of things to say to this man when I saw him, but holding Taz in my arms, all the seemed to matter anymore was that he was alive and ok. And I must say - John and his father have taken EXCELLENT care of him. His furr was smooth and brushed. I didnt weigh Taz, but he has deffinatly put on weight since I last saw him. He MUST be pushing 30 lbs by now. So this story has a happy ending. At 17 years old I think Taz's days of wandering the country side hunting small game are at and end. Now he will be living the last few years (hopefully it will be that long) in the lap of luxary at my parents house, curled up by the fire place with all the food he could possibly want. I am so gratefull to my Dad for agreeing to do this. He is not a huge fan of cats... and he was hesitant about getting another animal since my brothers dog was hit by a car outside his house just 4 months ago. But Taz is not your average cat. And at 17 years old, and 30 lbs, hes really more of a creature of comfort at this point. But apparently, he still has his kitten-like charm. Everyone loves Taz :)
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
8 Dec 08
He sat in my lap the whole car ride - he didnt even need a cat carrier. Just perched on my lap and looked out the window :) And I think he will do just fine at my Dads house. I called him later that night and he said Taz was asleep on the couch... so I think its going to work out ok :)
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• United States
4 Dec 08
I think you are right that Taz will survive on his own without the food - do you pay for the food that John was putting out? If you give his father money for food will he continue to do it? That may be what is going on - it's worth a try to ask him and see if there is some other way to deal with the problem. It may be that his father is too proud to say anything about money for the cat food. Who moved into your parent's house? Would those people maybe feed your cat for you? At 27 pounds Taz is surviving on more than the bowl of cat food. I believe the cat food symbolizes his connection to people. I don't know what will happen with that connection severed. He could go either way. I hope you find a viable solution other that euthanasing him. Good luck!
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• Philippines
5 Dec 08
I agree with you, this is a dilemma. I guess it is hard enough that you can't take care of Taz without having to worry about whether to put him to sleep or not. Frankly, I think you shouldn't. You already said that he is the most self-sufficient animal you have ever seen. Maybe he can fend after himself. I suggest you wait it out for a while. If he manages on his own then you may not have to do anything. If he doesn't then maybe that is the time to ponder on putting him to sleep. I think the best option would have to be to try talking to the grumpy old man again. Tell him if you could work out an arrangement about the cat and maybe he would be willing to work out a deal with you guys. Good luck!
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• United States
6 Dec 08
Welcome Back Tee!!!! (Sorry if I'm late lol) I say to leave that ol' tom to his own devices. He's been alright for the past ten years, and trust me, that one bowl of food every night did not get your cat to be 27lbs lol. I could see if he was sick already, but he's been doing fine on his own this long, he should be just fine. I think it would be inhumane to put a cat as independent as this one is down.
• United States
8 Dec 08
Oh, so since I didn't notice you being back you've been cheating on me! Who is this Ivy person??? lol, I just got in so I'm going to check that response.
@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Ivy you sexy momma how have you been?? *hugs* I have a happy ending to report. See my response to Pye on the first page :) XXOXOX Tee
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