When To Know I am In Love?
4 Dec 08
Let me tell you something I tell others whenever I am asked this question online or in real life. I'll let you view your situatino through my eyes as someone who knows nothign about you.. ________________________________________(that's a blank line) What I'm trying to tell you is that no one can tell you if your in love with someone. No one knows exactly what your feeling, no one knows how you are with this other person and what goes on inside your head and heart when your with them. I will tell you one thing whenever someone asks me if their in love I tell them NO. Often they are shocked at this answer and wonder why I can be so mean. Well it's true. If you ever has to ask anyone else about your feelings then the answer is always NO. If you must ask the answer is no you don't love them you may be infatuated but if you have to ask total strangers online then I'm going to have to tell you no. You may ask me well when will I. You and only you will know the answer. No one else.
4 Dec 08
You are confusing me yourself. If you are having more than one relationship with a girl then yes. If you are Dating these other women all at once then very much so yes. But if you haven't initiated anything more than a friendship with your 'friends' then they shouldn't leave you because you love someone. If they did do you really think they were your friends to begin with?
6 Dec 08
from what i read and my experiences, i would say that you know you are in love with someone when: - you miss her a lot, many times with no reason - when you look into her eyes, you get a feeling where you cant explain it - you get jealous when she talk to other boys, or when she date other boy or even when she tell you about other boys. - you feel comfortable with her, you feel secure. - you realise everything is rainbow when you are with her. - you always wanted to be with her. these may help you, i donno, anyways, my pleasure to tell you. :)
6 Dec 08
Some of the feelings that you have described i do get ... but i am very much afraid to become possesive about her... i dont want to become possesive and lose my coolness...i want my mind to be tension free and cool as it is now...also i want to concentrate on my career..do you think it is possible when you are in love?
7 Dec 08
many people i met say that we should run for our career first before trying to catch the rose. but for me, it depends on how you manage your life - and its important. also to mention, she have to have a certain degree of understanding of what you intends to do in your life. if she is understandable, then maybe you wouldnt face problem in getting your goal. :)
5 Dec 08
you could only feel love and know it when you had started exerting extra effort and making a lot of things to make a person very happy. or when you start knowing evrything about her... missing her always wanted to see her.... i dont know how a man's mind work as regards love, but thats how i see my husband did to me. hope i made a sense in this.
9 Dec 08
I see you must be handsome, or maybe you are friendly to most of them, and you may be charming. Aha...just make fun. Well, you must distinct the difference between friendship and loveness. You must know love is based on the mutual support, understanding, mutual love. Anyway, GOOD LUCK TO YOU!