My officemate's boyfriend accused me for flirting with his girlfriend!

@Crizhant (187)
Philippines
December 4, 2008 7:24pm CST
Last night i got a phone call and i didn't knew who was calling, an arrogant voice asked me if i was the one flirting and texting his girlfriend(my officemate), and i answered "Who is this? What are you talking about?" he said, "Stop acting like you don't know the situation, stop texting my girlfriend and do not disturb us anymore!", i was so shocked and mad when he said that because he's pushing me into something which i didn't do. Let me picture out the scenario between me and my officemate's situation, she's a friend of mine and we're workin' on different shifts and we don't talk to each other too long, lastly we rarely text each other. What do you think is the best thing to do? I'm dissapointed with how he acted.
3 responses
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
First you have to let your officemate know what his bf did and tell her to talk ti his bf before accusing anyone else. If your not guilty about the issue then just ignore it for as long as you know yourself and theres nothing going on between you & his gf. Gud luck!
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• Philippines
5 Dec 08
I agree with cathya. You need to talk to your officemate first to convince her guy not to threaten you because you're innocent and you have nothing to do with them both.
@Crizhant (187)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
I will cathya and this should be a lesson for him to learn.
@rcfranz (180)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
dont mind hes accusation,maybe he is just insane or madly in love with her girlfriend...let us give him the benifit of a doubt...hehehe
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@Crizhant (187)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
That could be one reason. Hope he'll realize he's wrong about it.
@kkthom3 (279)
• United States
5 Dec 08
i don't know if there really is anything that you can do because the boyfriend sounds like a paranoid and jealous person and you can't change that. You might want to talk to your officemate and tell her about the situation. Maybe she can talk some sense into her boyfriend and get him to live alone. If he calls you again might try to explain to him that since you work together it is inevitable that you must talk with her on a regular basis. If none of that works than you might just block that guys calls and ignore him completely. He sounds like a real loser anyway.
@Crizhant (187)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
Yes it really shows that he's a loser and so paranoid. Oh, I forgot to tell you guys, he sumkinda threatened me last night, not to mention i've been in boxing for more than two years now, he'll regret if he'll touch me. ;) But i'll talk to my officemate first later. :)