December 4, 2008 9:13pm CST
So we all know that men like to look. It's certainly better that they just look and no actions take place but what do you do when you think that they're looking a bit too much? What if you found some pictures of another girl on your boyfriend's computer? I'm not talking about pictures of a friend in her everyday wear but pictures of her in her underwear? How upset do you think you would be, if at all? Keep in mind this is someone that he speaks to online on a regular basis. I'm curious to know what course of action others would take if this happened to them.
9 Dec 08
okay seriously, if i try to put myself in your shoes, seeing pictures of another girl in a, let me say, provocative outfit, would definitely not merit my approval. It's surprising though that some women find it okay to find out that their guy is collecting some skeletons for his closet. They don't mind. Well, if that was the case then this conversation's over. But I WOULD mind. So if I don't want my guy to rummage through dirty stuffs and dismiss it as something "harmless" or "safe" or "just friendly", then I'd better tell him upfront BUT in an assertively calm and composed manner otherwise he might just be defensive. If he does love me, he'd respect that a provocative picture isn't "harmless" nor "safe" nor "just friendly" for me. And it's bothering me. If he won't compromise...how would he like me looking at pictures of my high school or college buddies in virtually nothing?
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5 Dec 08
i would throw a fit! haha. i would ask for an explanation and probably pick apart everything he says and overanalyze it. but i prob sound crazy! but that is rediculous. if he is your BOYFRIEND he should not have dirty pictures of another girls... especially one he actually communicates with!