Am I bieng too much?
By Llonorra22
@Llonorra22 (1150)
Philippines
December 5, 2008 2:23am CST
As a person with disability, it's inevitable for me to ask a lot of questions into a lot of things. Now, my question is: Am I being to much with my suitor? I have a suitor who courts me for two weeks now. Although it's still early, I already told him the pros and cons of being with me if we will have a relationship in the future. I told him that I'm easy to get along with but I'm kinda difficult to be with when it come to traveling, and so on and so forth... I also told him that people might laugh at him when they see us together. (I have a spastic dypedia type of cerebral palsy, but I can walk and move around with the help of someone or with crutches) Am I not putting too much pressure on him? Is this the right thing to do? Please share... Godspeed...
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4 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
5 Dec 08
i think the dude rock. he's a few people out there see you for who you are and not what you are. i have a friend who has cP reallly bad, and he met this girl who don't care about that at all.
being disable and finding that person could carless about all that, and like you for you is great. enjoy it and if he knows what's is comes with you and don't care enjoy it.
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@infoeaglesforce (49)
• Nigeria
5 Dec 08
Hello dear, you are not been too much, it is a very good thing for you to have let him know what is really happening; so if he truelly love's you, he will definitely take you the way you are, ok.
@AmbiePam (85183)
• United States
5 Dec 08
I know this may be hard, but try not to talk too much about the problems he might have with being involved with you. He knows things will be more difficult perhaps, but if you concentrate just on the positives of your relationship, when he sees the negatives he will be less likely to care. Besides all that, it isn't like he doesn't have his own quirks or problems. They just may not be as obvious! 
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
5 Dec 08
From what you wrote, your disability is very visible. I think that if person is interested in you, I would just go with the flow. He apparently is aware of your disability and you have already told him the pros and cons. Trend lightly and slowly with this relationship in order to protect your emotions. I do not think you are putting too much pressure on him, from what you wrote.
Good luck
