is it ok to be in Love with more than one guy/girl at the same time?

torn between two - cant decide
@shonali (1286)
India
December 5, 2008 6:44am CST
i have a feeling that i may be in love with my ex boyfriend even today .... i have a guy i am going aroung with and yes i do love him a lot too but i cant shake off this love kind of feeling that i still have for the guy i dated before in my past.... is it normal to feel this way or is soemthing wrong with me.... am i doing something wrong by loving two people at the same time? am i being unfair to my present guy by not telling him this part of me ...? am i lying to him or living a lie? i know very well that its not going to ever happen with the past tense guy.... but why do i still feel this way.... PLEAASE HELP!!
2 responses
@murali603 (114)
• India
5 Dec 08
ya now somnay people are doing like this..so many girls maintain lots of people ata time they play with the boys life nothing rong for boys ti maintain more than one girl friend ...but if one maintains more than one girl friend then his expendeture will increase causaully but girls pocket money also increases....
@shonali (1286)
• India
5 Dec 08
well im not talking about this as a fashion statement pal
@nadec23 (63)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
Its just like saying, you're not ready to move on. In that case, you have to rely on your heart's calling and be sure to choose the right one. It's not wrong to love two people at the same time, as long as it just remain as an admiration and that your heart only belongs to the one that you truly love.
@shonali (1286)
• India
5 Dec 08
whoa that makes it even more confusing...well yeah i dont think i am quite ready to move on but i got to stop thinkin this way or its not going to make my life easier...is it?