What could I do?
By linsond
@linsond (33)
China
    December 7, 2008 2:10am CST
                         
            I am a college student,and next year I will graduate and say goodbye to my studying life forever! I miss the school life,and I find the social life is cruel and hard for me ? I feel fear and scared,and I just do not what to do when stepping in the social world!Does anybody can help me?
1 response
         @shamsta19 (3224)
 • United States
                    7 Dec 08
                    There is nothing wrong with what you are feeling as it is quite normal. You are young and striking out into the world. I want to congratulate you on your graduation, that is a great accomplishment and chance for you to do well in life. You have plenty of time to socialize and become comfortable with interacting with others. I see you are new here. Use this site as a social tool. You can get some practice conversing to different people. 
Most of all here you have to help yourself I think. You have to find whatever it is that will break you out of your shell and shake the fear your have. I used to be kind of a shy guy myself. I still made friends and as I got older I got more comfortable with who I was and that made me less fearful of the interaction with others. You have the whole world ahead of you! Relax and enjoy it. 
                    @linsond (33)
 • China
                            7 Dec 08
                                    
                            Thank you ,shamsta19!
With your encouragement,I think I can face the society confidently.
You are right ,the whole world is ahead of me and I have no reason to avoid it.
I will try my best to adapt the life after graduation and face the music;.
Thank you again.Best wishes!
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