Small or Large Family Doesn't Matter / myLot

Malaysia

December 7, 2008 4:41am CST

I come from a large family of 11. I have a twin sister (identical). My husband is also from a large family. Between us we have 12 children. Some of my siblings advise me not to have so many children. The irony is when they want help eg. moving house they will ask for my children's help. One of my sister still hasn't any child despite being married thrice (divorced twice). Even my twin sister had only one child who was stillborn. So be thankful if you have only one child or several. Just shower them with tender loving care.

5 responses

GjAMastEr

@gjabaigar (2200)

• Philippines

7 Dec 08

I'm still a bachelor. I prefer a large family when I have my own family. The more the merrier. Although its a lot of responsibilities but I like those kind of challenges.

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inder86

@inder86 (565)

• Gibraltar

7 Dec 08

i think the small one is better one . maximum is two. first you can raise kids with full care second you can have little time for you also.

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twinbear

@twinbear (35)

• Malaysia

7 Dec 08

Thanks for your opinion. How many children we want is up to us as we are the ones to spend quality and quantity time with them.

goodtogo

@goodtogo (149)

• Pakistan

13 Dec 08

small famiuly or large famil does matters.if there are lots of people in your family there is alot of disturbance.naturally we can enjoy together but is only oin the special occassions.otheriwse family size does matters.

rick_d

@rick_d (213)

• United States

8 Dec 08

I like a large family. I have two brothers and three sisters. only three kids of my own. My aunt has 11 kids I just like the idea of big families. more love to go around

anyoung

@anyoung (75)

• India

13 Dec 08

Yes i agree with you, Its true that everyone should have family planning beforehand, but if the person is already having children's no matter how much , each one of them should be shower with love and tenderness