do you prefer long or short term dating/courtship?

Philippines
December 8, 2008 6:52pm CST
i am wondering what people think about courtship. do you prefer it to be long? or just short? because i've been dating for couple of times before; and my realization was this... for those i have dated for months (i mean many months, LOL), we ended up saying our goodbyes after a month. for those i have dated for days (i really mean days, LOL), we were able to "be together" for a year. in your case? what do you think?
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@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
for me courtship is very important, but it doesn't mean that if takes a long courtship means it is an assurance that the relationship will last. I dont believe on the longer the courtship the longer the relationship but i believe on the longer the courtship is better. But if you think that the people who is courting deserves to be your partner then why not to take it long. As long as you know already the person and you think he is sincere with you then go with it...
• Philippines
27 Dec 08
so you mean, the longer the courtship..the longer the relationship will be?
@jha2x_09 (74)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
hi. for as long as you feel the same way,why do you need to have a courtship.just start your relationship so that you will know if you really like each other,and if, will it work.. now adays, it doesnt matter how long the courtship or sometimes just fell inlove from the time they've met.. right??... there's no certain time for that, especially if your on the right age... just enjoy life.. okidoki???
• Philippines
27 Dec 08
i think you are right... love knows no time... i will think about this...thanks!
@vanonas (949)
• United States
9 Dec 08
I've never been "dating" I'm 18. I usually start talking to a guy for a little then just start going out with him. I've never been talking to more than one guy because then they think you're messing with their head. I don't know. The whole dating thing wasn't for me. I've always been in relationships for almost a year or more.
• Philippines
27 Dec 08
well, good luck to your relationship...long or short..just be happy..
@legend4u (1019)
• India
9 Dec 08
i don't know . i am 18 and i am starting to getting to this rhythm . dating is always good. i love to do it. and for me i think i like long term relationship for now. i don't know how i will say after a month of leaving with my date.
• Philippines
27 Dec 08
long term is a good choice...
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.