My dad

@cripfemme (7698)
United States
December 8, 2008 7:26pm CST
As many as Myloters know my father is not the best person in the world. I'm disabled and I am a girl two things that he doesn't like. He was very mean to me while I was growing up and i haven't talked to his at all since I was twenty one nor do i plan to. There is a new myloter that works with a father right organization witch on the whole I believe is a good idea because to many people are denied access to there kids following a diverse. However, I wonder what this man would think of people like my dad who don't act like a father and are in fact mean to their kids. Do I, in his opinion have the right to not have a relationship with my father because how he has treated me. I my opinion I do and so does any child over the age of 10 is before that if what ever is going on is particularly bad.
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3 responses
• United States
9 Dec 08
I agree. It is good that these parents want to see their children but they have to understand that many children may not want to see them.
• China
9 Dec 08
I think that it was not your fault,so don't feel sad.Your father gived your life,but you can choose the way to live,crying or smiling. Best wishes to you!
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
..Oh.. I am so sorry that your father treated you like that.. Maybe He didn't understand that you did not chose what or who you are.. And you need to be cherished. loved and taken cared of.. However, you should not shed your tear over a spilled milk.. And I don't blame you ahving such feeling against your dad.. However, it would be nice to forgive and let go.. That way, you could have a light heart and more focused mind.. Look for other things that could make you happy.. Look into the brighter side of the world.. be not affected by anything which could let you down.. Just move on and keep up.. I believe that God will help you overcome all your problems.. He is a great God and nobody could explain how good He is.. We just need to trust in Him and everything will be alright..