How does it feel being single again after in a long relationship?

@n30wing (4768)
Philippines
December 11, 2008 12:58am CST
After having a 3 years relationship that time it took me for a while to adjust alone. I was missing her, remembering the time we spent together, call it sweet memories, but it was all gone. I started to think for myself what I wanna do on my own. It's not easy to fall in love again, it took me time to fall in love again. Have a nice day to all of you!
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@Favour3 (12)
11 Dec 08
i am still there. i feel lonely after a break form a 5 year relationship. i have been alone for a year and i missed the wonderful times we spent together. i hope to meet someone.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
The right person will just comes along. IN TIME! It took me time to heal the wounds. Now I wont let her go anymore. I'm getting to be engage before Christmas. By March Iam getting married. I can't wait anymore! Advance Merry Christmas to you and your family! God bless!
@annierose (18949)
• Philippines
11 Dec 08
For me, it is kind of a sad one. I feel that a part of me had lost and I cannot do anything just to get it back.I cried sometimes. No matter what I do, I cannot forget him.I missed him so much. Everytime, I will see the gifts he gave to me during our relationship, it makes me weak. Sometimes I'm thinking what if I had not broke with him and just continue the relationship. But, I admit that it is my pride that refrain me from talking to him. I just keep on saying to myself he is not the right man for me. I just keep myself busy in order not to be able to think of him. I put his gifts to a place where I cannot see those.Being single again after a long relationship makes me have time with my family and friend.Mingling with them makes me enjoy my life again.I continue making friends to other people also. Aside from that, broking up with him makes my faith in God stronger. I just get my strength to God. Without Him, I don't think so that I can overcome the depression I got from broking up with the relationship.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
It took me time to heal the wounds. TO forget the past and to be myself again. It took me time to fall in love again. Before Christmas I will be engage. This time I don't wanna loose her. I never expect that I will faoll in love it just happens. Next year March I'll get married. I can't wait anymore! Advance Merry Christmas to you and your family! Life is a journey fly high and spread your wings! God will make a way! Take care!
@rsa101 (24803)
• Philippines
11 Dec 08
Well I guess its understandable in your case to find love back again. I think you just did is the right way when encountering that same situation. you should heal yourself before jumping on another relationship. That is what is common mistakes of those that do jump in a new relationship hoping that they would find happiness and avoid the pain. But sometimes or most of them do fail to find real happiness because new relationship is not the same as the one you had before.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
Well you said it right! It took me time a longer time to love again. Now I will be engage before Christmas. I feel great! I never expect that I can love agin it just happen if it was really meant to happen. I have learned in that relationship. This time I don't want that to happen again. Soon this coming March I will be getting married. I can't wait anymore! I wanna spend my whole life with her. Merry Christmas in advance to you and your family! Keep on smiling!
@sivanj (1263)
• India
11 Dec 08
i do accept what you say. it is very difficult to be a single. that too after being in relation with someone. its always a very sad thing when someone leaves, be it a friend or lover or whatever. when it is love it is even hard to digest it. i feel sorry for that. happy to hear that you are getting back on track to live life better. don't worry and look back. i wish you a very happy and brighter life ahead.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
After that three years of relationship it wasn't that easy to love again. It took me time to be alone. But after how years. I learned to love again. I plan to give her a ring this Christmas (engagement ring) Getting married soon. Next year March. I think it's really meant to happen. Merry Christmas to you and your family! Keep on smiling!