5 years... dying in pain!

@lextoper (573)
Philippines
December 11, 2008 5:24am CST
My friend girlfriend just broke up with him... They have been in a relationship for 5 years and 6 months. I feel so bad towards their relationship because i witness it my self how they love each other before. Their life revolved to each other... they are dependent to each other. Every time i see them together, I envy them because I dreaming to have a relationship like what they had. After that very long years of relationship, the girl fall out of love for him. I remember the story of the two fish in a bowl that I posted here before. Let me tell that story again and hope you can relate. "Their are two fish in a bowl they both enjoyed living together. They were contented with each others presence. They love each other so much... but time passed by, the other was not as in love as before. She didn't enjoy the things they used to do. So, the other fish know and felt the coldness of their relationship. He was terribly hurt because she was his only world. One day, he was seen with his eyes closed floating like a lifeless body. He was put off from the bowl and was replaced by a new one. But before his body was raised he slowly opened his eyes and whispered "Hope he can make you happy... I love you" Very sad story but this is exactly what happened to my friend. He let go of his love even though he is dying in pain just to make his love ones happy. And I think that what love really is.
2 responses
@bunmi2501 (465)
• Nigeria
11 Dec 08
Touchy but foolish, there are rudiment in a relationship that you need to understand, people get bored with each other because they did not take time to develop new approach to handle and attend to issues, they do the same thing they do for 5 years- who would not be bored.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
Well, they are planning to get married this year before they had their breakup. But sadly things changes. For me, if they really love each other, they will not get bored of each other because love is unconditional it will not ask for more than what they can give and do. They starting dating when they are in college and they have dreams to fulfill before they want to get married or jump to other level of relationship.
@achinthya (1216)
• India
11 Dec 08
I think you might also have heard that if you love someone you should let it go if it comes back then it is yours, so friend trust me if their bondage is strong no matter any misunderstanding will happen they will solve and be together again.Five years its very long but we can't trust human minds it can divert within a second. May be its broken for good before it became too late.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
I totally agree to that! Just last night, I talked to him and asked him if he still love the girl. He said yes and he is still hoping that someday, the girl will go back to him and be together again. He never had love other girl before the way he love his ex.