Why do committed men attract so many single women?

Philippines
December 11, 2008 10:38pm CST
As I've observed, now a days more and more single women are okay to committe with men that are already committed may it be a just a girlfriend/married already. So what is it really with committed men that made some women go wooohh just to be with them.
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
Well I guess many who are committed already poses a sense of responsibility that many single women are attracted to. But many of those they fall for sometimes are the ones that are irresponsible since they could not commit even to their original commitment with the other party.
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
exactly my point! If they can't be responsible enough, how can you expect them to be one when it comes to you.
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
And also there are just many ladies out there that loves challenges in their life that's why they wanted to be the third person in a relationship.
@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
In my opinion, these women had a bad experience with what they call love. Young women fall in love with young boys of their age but look at the kind of boys we have today, many that i know dont know the meaning of responsibility, most of them are just looking for girls to have experience but no love at all, they tend to destroy our women, and these women realized later that love is not enough but commitment. I am a married man, last week I was sent to another city to attend some business, in the middle of the transaction, a lady suddenly was courting me, I said I am married, she said she dont care. i said Iam an old man, she said she dont care, I ask her if she needs money she said No! So I ask her, what made her so boldy wanted to have a relationship with me. She said,because of her former boyfriend a friend of mine actually, who doesnt seems to care anymore, not considerate, no sense of responsibility. Finally, I said, I cannot because I am a family man and I dont want to create a problem that I will be sorry sometimes later. But still, she insist but I stand with my No. Happy posting.
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
NICE! I hope more men can be like you, have more courage to say NO with temptation.
• Canada
12 Dec 08
Are you by chance single and looking or are you married and don't know what to do with all the women who throw themselves at you? There probably isn't any specific reason why this happens. I think it just depends on the motivation. I woman whos after love will go for the guy shes more in love with and a woman whos after money will go after the guy who has more wealth and the woman who wants etc. etc. It doesn't matter who committed and whos not apparently...
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
I am single and as well a woman. I'm not generalizing all women wanting a complicated relatioship. I'm just having some thoughts here and really trying hard to understand what do women get with this kind of set up..