anyone have this experience fall in love with your sister?

China
December 12, 2008 10:38am CST
i can remember when i was a child i fell in love with my sister.i was shy to meet her but very eager to see her.i even wanted to hug her and tell her i love her.when she had a boyfriend i was very sad.now she is married and i have a girlfriend when i see her i don't have the feeling like before,i still love her but just hope she will happy and good.maybe it is a child love because i didn't contact other girls.i don't know the feeling is normal or abnormal?anyone else had this feeling before? i just want a chance to tell her i ever fell in love with her for five years.but it is end for a long time.
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6 responses
barehugs
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
12 Dec 08
I think its quite unusual to fall in love with your sister. I am aware that many young prepubescent boys fall for their moms, and likewise young girls sometimes fall for their Fathers. Perhaps it happened because you were shy and didn't mix well with other kids. Anyway, sounds like it all worked out well for both you, and your sister.
grisson
@grisson (21)
• China
12 Dec 08
yeah it is end.maybe during that time i was so close with my sister.i fell for my sister.it is not a big deal right?
Marcola
@Marcola (2774)
• United States
12 Dec 08
I think it's safe to say that it's not normal. At least, where I come from, it isn't natural. Although, maybe it is in some parts of the world.
grisson
@grisson (21)
• China
12 Dec 08
i don't think it is normal in any part of the world.but it is maybe just a child love not a ture love.it is a amphibolous feeling not a clear love,it is a phase of growing.i just want to know it is normal to have this phase?
zhengyu
@zhengyu (61)
• China
13 Dec 08
oh no no no Your unusual experience surprised me . In my country , falling in love with sister is a shame . It can't be accepted by others . I suggest you hide it in your heart forever ,don't tell it to your sister ,or she will feel shy and uncomfortable . After all, she just treats you as her brother !
zhengyu
@zhengyu (61)
• China
13 Dec 08
oh , no . Your unusual experience surprised me . In my country , falling in love with sister is a shame . It can't be accepted by others . I suggest you hide it in your heart . Don't make your sister know your secret , or she will feel shy and uncomfortable .
grumpybear
@ShortyAkbar (384)
• United States
13 Dec 08
That's not normal at all. I never heard anything like that before. Incest is no longer an accepted practice. And where you get the idea that brothers and sisters getting married in the near future from is beyond me. Maybe you didn't get out enough when you were little.
Frederick42
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
13 Dec 08
I have never fallen in love with sister. But I cannot say it is abnormal. Anything that happens in this world is normal. If it was not normal, then it would not have happened. Nowadays, I feel many people are falling in love with siblings and I believe by the close of the next century, there will be many marriages between siblings.