Daydreamer2: until when can you give chances?
December 12, 2008 11:55pm CST
Me, i lost the man i trust because he betrayed me by direspecting my womanhood and i've given him a lot of chances in the world it reaches 3 years but all my efforts are wasted and i really felt like i don't like it anymore to give chances even if he asks for it and until now i can't forget what he did and what he said and how i lost myself in the air now i'm regaining what i am now because i lost myself and stayed in the dark for 2 years and the hurt still lingers and i still cannot forget even forgive. Please help me guys what else can i do aside from regaining myself?
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14 Dec 08
I think getting hurt in relationships is just a part of life, at least you have experienced love, some people never do, so now all you can do is go on, live life to the fullest amd enjoy the rest of your time, I know it is not easy but it is wasted time being down about it, put it down to life experience, love yourself and you will meet someone new... good luck.
13 Dec 08
It's not easy to pick up pieces of your life. I think you have to think for your self now, you have to forget the pains and hurts or this might also help you to regain your self again. By just doing things now for your self, what you want to do with your life now. Like focus on something that you can achieve, and setting your goals to reach it. If your just gonna pity your self don't. It will just complicate your life more. Life has to go on without him. In love you can't ask for a return. Yes you wasted your time, still you still have a life to go on. There is still always the bright side of life. Close the chapter and just turn your back at the past, just to get out of it first. God be with you!
13 Dec 08
Hi friend ! I am sorry to hear what you been through. Each one of us has been a lotof tough times in our lives, this man doesn't obviously doesn't deserve you, I am glad to know that you have slowly and in process have regain your confidence and self worth. You don't have to exert much effort of forgetting him 'cause you could not, he has been part of you, but I would say that you keep yourself occupied into something and as you have said, you have let go and move on. You have 'mourned' for two years now and its high time for you to live a life that you deserve, I believe though that each of us, are destined for someone, I think that someone wasn't the x, there is a beautiful soul out there who waits for you. I hope I have made your day a little bit brighter ! *smiles*