do you think all who listens to you understands you?

@chevill (316)
Philippines
December 13, 2008 4:08am CST
me? I don't think so because sometimes you thought that they listen and they understand but they just nodding their head as if they understand but deep inside they they are not really listening, they just hear you without understanding your point? so what your opinion about it?
8 responses
@NonaSaile (924)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
No, not all. That can't be helped at all. Throughout our lifetime, we will encounter situations where we are speaking to a person who are not actually listening and therefore not really understanding. Maybe they are not interested and are just being polite, maybe there are other concerns in their minds, maybe... there are numerous reasons, really. And it's all on case to case basis. Best gauge is to look the person you are talking to straight in the eyes.
@chevill (316)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
thanks for your opinion friend, happy mylotting!
@patzel88 (3311)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
not all understands us because we have different beliefs in life and some are floating in the air of not listening to the words you say sometimes they ask again what you are saying because they also thinking even you see him/her but their minds are not focusing with you.
@chevill (316)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
yes your correct to that my friend. thanks!
@murali603 (114)
• India
13 Dec 08
I don't think so because some people listen to me because i am telling some thing even they don't have any interest and also even he is not getting me. At that time i can observe that he is not listening to me. If i understand his situation then i will stop speaking and i will end that discussion. I observed this situation in case of my friends also. Some one is speaking and explaining about some topic then some people will talk to other people without listening to him. In those cases the person who is talking at the center may hurt after seeing the situation. Thanking you.
@chevill (316)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
yah right which is I feel too sometimes. thanks for your comments and respond.
@klaudine (3651)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 08
I don't think so. Sometimes when I talk to my partner, I hope she would understand what I was talking about because she was listening to me. But instead of giving the right comment or answer me with good opinion, she just tell me something else. I know that she didn't understand what I was talking about. But I appreciate people who tries to listen even they don't understand. I mean, at least they give us some time and attention to listen to what we said.
@chevill (316)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
thanks for your opinions and views happy mylotting!
@bing28 (3797)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Not all who listen to us understand. They maybe listening but just listen and don't care to understand what are you saying, It depends however to the mood of the person. They may understand but don't want to comment as they're not in the mood. They don't want to say anything maybe as they are not interested.
@Frederick42 (2018)
• Canada
11 Jan 09
I am sure that most people do not understand what I speak. it always happens when somebody has grown higher in his consciousness. Most people in this world are not having a high consciousness, and therefore there are misunderstandings. But I am not bothered whether anybody understands me or not. These days, I have almost stopped speaking and I do all the listening. It is good to listen to people.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
19 Dec 08
Absolutely No, many people who just listen to our problems just for time pass..... I had seen many peoples like that, they just simply sit and listen and make some useless comments....
• Germany
14 Dec 08
I think it depends on the person who listen to us. Some people really understand all i said, but some people do not. Sometimes when i'm discussing the topics with my friends, they always nod their head, but when i ask for the suggestions or advices, they can't really give any. Mostly the topics are related to studies. But some of my friends who are very serious on studies, they will really listen to me and understand me, and finally we could make discussions together. Happy mylotting.