What are your thoughts about fantasizing?
By RitaGreen
@RitaGreen (141)
United States
December 13, 2008 9:56am CST
I was curious to know how many of you out there fantasize about others, or scenarios with your bf/gf/spouse? Do you think it's healthy release? Would you tell your partner or keep it a little secret? Personally, I think it's a wonderful thing and my partner LOVES to hear about it in great detail. It really increases the intensity of our time together! So what do you think? All responses greatly appreciated?
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@wayz12 (2059)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I think there is nothing wrong with fantasies. Fantasies can actually spice up our lives. Being able to express it honestly to one's partner is also a good thing. It can actually bring you two closer and increase your bond.
Some people's fantasies can be pretty benign; others might be more risque and dangerous. For fantasies that are a little out there, as long as you guys know the difference of fantasy and reality, then it is fine.
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@leslie1977 (23)
• United States
14 Dec 08
It really depends on how open your partner is. In my relationship, if I had a fantasy about someone else and I told my boyfriend about it, he would FLIP OUT!! He likes to know that he is the only one that turns me on and that is what excites him.
@RitaGreen (141)
• United States
15 Dec 08
My Charlie KNOWS that he is the ultimate turn on in my life! As I am in his. But we enjoy the idea of and fully intend to pursue an addition to our relationship. There are many who probably feel as you do and it's perfectly fine. I appreciate your comment and best wishes in your relationship!
@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 08
I have varies fantasies everyday.
I think it is healthy yes I tell my partner sometimes they excite them. :)
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
13 Dec 08
Hhhahah. I do think about other women in my dreams but I would never dream of telling her. That would make my wife mad. I might end up like mr. bobbit.
