have you ever been attracted to your same gender?

Philippines
December 13, 2008 10:18pm CST
My friend asked me this morning if I've ever been attracted to the same gender. She told me that one of our friend (kat)is having relationship with the same gender which used to be her friend (kats friend). To me she might have confused her feelings to intimacy. I mean I have a friend which I loved talking to because we relate to each other and she so understand me, sometimes I can't wait to see her just so I could share experiences but I never thought of me missing her as someone I have intimacy with. I'm fine with gay marriages. But now that it's happening to my friend it's seems kind of weird, maybe because I never thought she could be into this type of relationship. She might someday come to her senses and this relationship wouldn't last or she might figure out that she doesn't need a man to fill her needs. As for me, whatever will make her happy, I'm still her friend. I wonder if I'll ever get into this type of relationship because who knows!? but, I already have a family so I think its way too impossible for me now. What do you think pushes a person to have relationship with their same gender? What are your experiences on this?
3 responses
@roinuh (38)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
yeap, i been attracted to my same gender (im a man) but its just a simple attraction, like their hair, hair style, complexion, height, body built, and the way he move... just a simple attraction that makes me apply to myself to be more look good... but as i have said that it is just a simple attraction...but going into a relationship..i think that is a big NO...
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
I feel the same too... I only get attracted to that same level or only to the level that I can say "If I were a man I'd like a girl like that" or wish that I could have some of the girls physical asset.
@chaijudin (506)
• Indonesia
15 Dec 08
once when i was 16 i am a man but now i relize Chick is more intresting then dude
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
I was once courted by my same gender and I'm sorry but I immediately avoided her since then. I guess it's because if ever I'll have a relationship with the same gender I'll choose someone who's better looking than her.hahaha! I'm just not feeling her.
@Ysabel (1201)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
hi.. no. i have never been attracted to the same gender. i admire girls or women, but purely admiration, i was never attracted. =)