How Will U React To Successive Failures??

India
December 15, 2008 6:59am CST
hi friends, i have been undergoing successive failures since past two years,wherever i go whatever i do failure is back of me. I guess i am his best friend. Earlier i used to be a succcess guy and i have a name that i am most lucky guy because whatever i do i am done with it,but now, the scene got reversed and now,almost i got used to this failures. I got used to this failures to such an extent that whatever work i do mentally i am getting prepared for the worst!! It is like hell for me, and i am not knowing what to do i am frustrated,but i cant blast out on others!! What shud i do???How shud i do???Can any one suggest me please!!!
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13 responses
@myskina (182)
• China
16 Dec 08
well friend , you should try to adjust yourself , your life , your team , to show your best for them , they are watching you know , their eyes on you , you can do it , come on `
• United States
16 Dec 08
I've always been pretty good at failing.. I never thought of calling it successful failure.. it does sound better than saying.. I screwed up again! My grandma used to say that without failure, success cannot be born. I believe it to be true! I always prepare for the worst too... but people tell me that this means that I am a pessimist .. I just say that I'm a optimist with attitude :) Cheer up! even a stopped clock is right two times a day... (I'm cliche'd out now!) lol!
@MisterPlus (1915)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
Do you believe in feng shui? Maybe it has something to do with your failures. Feng shui best explains why some things never work or why we get so lucky at times. Plan with feng shui and it amy give you a big help.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
16 Dec 08
I just realized that you can't be a failure. After all you are a success at failures. You have a good start so now try to succeed at something else.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
16 Dec 08
No one is a failure if he doesn't give up. You need to rebuild your confidence in your ability to succeed. Start with small things and work your way up. Read some positive material. If you believe in God, pray for a changed attitude, a positive one. Never measure success by looking at others and comparing. Each one of us is different. I wish you success!
• India
16 Dec 08
Frustration is one of the biggest causes as sell as a rresult of failure. Relax and think calmly. Persistance alone cna bring success. if you give up because of a failure, you are returning form the brink of success. When you give up, it is actually the time for that extra effort which woudl have changed the fortunes. Put in that extra bit of effort. Failure is but a stepping stone to success. Tread on that step and your fortunes will change. Remember that every dark cloud has a silver lining.
@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
15 Dec 08
Hello! I do fail lots of times. When I try to do something, I fail at it, really. But you know, I never bother about it. You should keep your chin up, and keep on trying. You are already succeeding, even if you are succeeding on failing. You can never make something right if you do not try. So, stopping trying is not an option. You should keep doing what you are doing, and keep on trying. And then, my friend, you will make something right. Just be sure that you don't focus on the mistakes: focus on the right things you do. What did you do to make it correctly? Keep on getting those tips. And try to learn when you fail. What did you do wrong? How can you change it from now? Respectfully, Munhozmib.
@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
Oh my, how sad! Maybe it's just not your lucky year. i think if you've been successful in the past then there's hope to achieve that kind of success again in the future. Just don't lose hope right now. Hang in there. Lay low. Don't try to do anything big because you might still have some bad luck. And when you're feeling lucky again, then that's the time to make a big comeback and to recoup your losses. Don't worry, a lot of people are struggling with the bad economy right now.
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
Hello :) IMHO, 90% of success is based on hardwork and 10% luck. I understand that you have been through a lot of unsuccessful experiences that you have already gotten used to it. I guess thats part of the problem. You expect failure all the time. What you can do is whenever you have something on your mind, do what it takes to get it or finish it..and hope for the best. Clear your mind, push yourself to do good, pray or ask guidance and be happy. Have a positive outlook in mind. Say you dont succeed.. dont blame it on bad fate.. just think that something better is on the way. Smile, move forward. Remember that everyday that were alive is a blessing.. to improve, be happy and succeed. Have a great day :)
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
I have no idea. If I were so desperate, I wouldn't be giving my reactions much thought cause I'd be in a tight situation. I think.. you should breathe first. Think slowly, don't rush things into your head or else you will only get stressed and tired. Take things one by one. Take control of yourself. If you want, try to see the light of your every failure. It's quite beneficial because it will make you prevent yourself from committing the same errors. You will learn what not to do. Calm down for a while. Relax a bit, loosen up. Breathe. Take it slow and steady.
• Ireland
15 Dec 08
failure can follow you around like your shadow i know it has done that for me.. like you failure has been my constant companion unlike you i have yet to find success in my life how do i react? i fight it! i will never give up happiness is out there, the trick is to find it if we give up, we will never find it so i keep looking online i search for success in terms of wealth offline it is happiness in terms of love that has eluded me but i will not be put off i will continue to search
@troyski (103)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
wow! that is one heavy situation you are in right now. honestly, i think its only human to feel down after being hit by successive failures. but it should be in no way a reason or excuse to just give up. it might lessen the level of enthusiasm that you began with. but as i said, i think its only normal to feel that way given your circumstances. i've always believed that life just goes around like a cycle. so just hang on and keep trying. i know this is really hard in your situation. but hey, as the saying goes... you're already down now. where else can you go next except up.
• India
15 Dec 08
Hey adi, its sunny here. i think i also have the same problem as you have. But i have the different solution from your's. I am a student and i am trying very hard for the competitive exams. the only thing i have got is the failure in my path, but still i had not stop my hard work for it and still on. My general advice to you is that; don't think of the result you get just be on you way and the success will be yours. the thing is that you have to chose your best possible way in the best possible manner. and the things will automaticaly go right.