How about do you like the situation?

Here in the US, the women are cheating almost as often as the men. For my husband and me, that's abhorrent. We're together because we want to be, and if one of us were to stray, that bond would be broken. The respect we share would be tarnished. I know we'd still be good friends, as we have been since we were young kids, but the marriage would be over. I am definitely woman enough for him. He is absolutely man enough for me. Nobody else can enter into this relationship. We also love to do things together, and there are very few times when an affair could take place, as we love sharing everything we do.

I[am not a woman, but have felt pained whenever such things have happened] would find out why he had to do this? Often there would be some vague explanation. Sometimes something very importantto him would have been missing in the relationship. I would only try to know the reason and then, if I could make a living by myself, I would leave him. If not leaving would be unintelligent. If I cannot somehow leave him were the case, I would see and accept this to be my position, and if he is still taking care of me, at least I am not in dire streets. I would withdraw my finer feelings like love and concern and make it a hard-headed, harder-hearted, and hardest-manipulated, existence! I have seen something very painful like this happening. I wll recount it along with my feelings.

If my boyfriend had someone on the side I would leave him. It's not fair to me for him to just have someone else when he wanted and expect me to just be there for him. I would be too hurt to stay with him so we would just break up. If I were married I'd probably leave him too. It would be so painful to find out that my husband was with someone else. I think I'd hunt the girl down and shank her. LOL