Is it possible to fall out of love?

Philippines
December 16, 2008 3:09am CST
I'm already in a 1year and 1month relationship. I'm just curious, if is it really possible to fall out of love?.. Have you experience that kind of situation?.. Cause as of now, I must say that I'm happy. But the question is, HOW LONG?
6 responses
@Theresaaiza (10539)
• Australia
16 Dec 08
many people have fallen out of love. Just as easy as bursting a bubble. But if you're happy with your lovelife, treasure it, cherish and nurture it to the best and the most that you can. If you set your mind on exactly how your relationship is going to end because you are plain curious about how it feels to fall out of love, then your relationship might just head towards that direction. Set your mind instead on how to make a rel'p last long....like trying to break a record or something....but at least try to be sincere. 1 year is too short. You can still go a long way. Some people I know sort of fell in love since birth and then the bubble thing. Very tragic.
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• Romania
25 Mar 09
I think you can fall out of love or at least lose your interest in someone. You may THINK you are in love, but after a period of some months or so, you may find their qualities to be defects. You may have not even been in love with them to begin with, just infatuated (or lustful for some people).
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
I remember reading one time, which say: that true love is a decision; and that it is more than just having the feeling of being in heaven. Your question made me think and realize: love is complicated. =) and i thought i knew everything about it. I guess love would best be understood in the context that God intended it to be.
@Calais (10899)
• Australia
17 Dec 08
It is possible and it happens, theres no time limit though as everyone is different...
@chandu245 (647)
• India
16 Dec 08
Well friend, it's all depends on your relationship. How long you will carry that much days it will go. But i really so hurted while she rejected me after loving me upto one year. still i didn't the reason from her, but she rejected me. So sad if i remember those situations. Becareful in love friend.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
It is possible but to say how long will it happen, nobody can say... If i were you just enjoy that feeling and dont think about falling inlove, to stay inlove with your girlfriend/boyfriend you need to accept all his flaws and try to work out small ang big conflict that you've have, communication is the best way to overcome falling out of love.