biological child vs. adopted child

It has always been a belief in my country that childless couples who adopt... would be bless with biological children of their own... it is like adopting a child would prove that they are worthy parents so God will finally bless them with one of their own... If this sort of thing will happen to me... i think i will share equal love between my adoptive and biological children... since i have already given my love to the first one... i think nothing can take that away...

I think so. But I won't really know unless I get to experience it. However, love for me is something that grows and encompass. It doesn't limit. So I think I would feel the same love for my adopted child as well as my biological child. The adopted child would be a child of my heart and by biological child would be a child of my body. One thing that I am sure of though is that I would love them both just the same. UP to what extent, I can't honestly really not say.

I actually know people who have gone threw this. It was a double blessing for them. I think that once you try so long to have a child and then finally find one to adopt, you will love that child as your own regardless of being able to have another child of your own.

Yes, I believe it is possible to love an adopted child as much as you would love your own biological child. I am the mother of two adopted sons and the biological mother of a daughter. I love all of my children the same. Its all just a matter of bonding with the child. For me it was easy. When I was a child I always thought that I would adopted because of all the children who needed a home. My children are all close in age seven, eight, and ten. I do know a couple who were going to adopt a little boy until they had one of their own. After this little boy had lived in their home for almost three years they decided the boy caused to much stress in their lives. It takes a special type of person to adopt a child. You have to go into the situation with an open heart as well as on open mind.

Yeah i could share the same feelings for both. I already have my own child and would like to see about adopting later in the future. Although i don't know if i will, but would like to help a child without family.

Yes I think that you should b able to love the kids the same. Once a kids is adopted they r for you and they know no difference unless they are shown.