Why Some Parent Get Mad When Their Baby Cries?

@gelaware (116)
United Arab Emirates
December 18, 2008 3:18pm CST
The first child is one of the most precious things to feel of being a Mom or Dad... The feelings to have a child is something that is so difficult to explain; the excitement and fulfillness makes you feel proud being a parents... When he/she starts to smile you smile; when he/she starts to cry you have many worries; but to some i have seen when their baby cries they are irritated!.... For those who does this the question sometimes is why you have to be irritated when the time that your baby cry... Even in the movies it showing to some of the event..... As parents the worry when we hear our child crying is the same thing as we are in that stage... We along to this world without knowing anything at all but to smile, cry and to blink an eye knowing the doors of our world....
3 responses
@liisafiat (660)
• Latvia
19 Dec 08
If You would have to listen to babies cries 24/7, You might understand them. Plus, they are annoying sometimes. And they demand too much of attention. If I would be in a process of work, would have some unsolved problems or would have financial difficulties PLUS a baby would start to cry by my side: I might get angry and demand him/her TO SHUT UP. I know....bad thing to do...But....
• United States
18 Dec 08
I think it's because they're impatient. Some people have what it takes to be parents, and others don't. Patient, caring people will make good parents, but impatient people won't. I know a lot of women who've had children but didn't have that "motherly instinct". Instead of have what many people would consider the normal reaction to their baby crying, they get angry. Those are the kind of people who should never be allowed to have children.
18 Dec 08
I am not a parent yet, so I don't know why they are mad when their baby cries. But in reality I get annoyed when I heard a baby cries maybe because it's not my baby, and sometimes the noise just made me more stress and destructs what I am thinking. I like babies but only when they are not crying, it might be because I don't have my own yet, I don't really have an idea how it feels like to be a mother.