How to mend a broken HEART?

Latvia
December 20, 2008 1:11pm CST
Break-up and the ending of relationship breaks Your HEART? So: what to do next? HOW CAN YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART? Can You do it with the help of others or on Your own? How should this `heart mending` process look like? And how long does it take to mend a broken heart?
3 responses
• Malaysia
1 Aug 10
Your friends will help you get over it. Soon, they'll be asking you to come out in a group to the cinema or the pub or whatever. At first you won't be in the mood, but soon you'll realize that there are some bonuses to being single again. In fact, you'll find that this is a good time to do stuff that you didn't do with your ex. So now you can go to the sorts of films that you like, or you can listen to your type of music, or go on your type of holiday.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
31 Dec 08
Time helps. Having good friends who won't judge you when your're feeling blue. Giving yourself time to mourn. Living your life the best way you can. Artistic creativity such as writing,drawing. Get out there and enjoy life but it does take time. Fake it until you make it.
@shonali (1286)
• India
21 Dec 08
well there is nothing like a particular time that is there to mend a broken heart.... but a person can defiantely set a time limit for her or his heart to be mended which will put it up as a challenge.....for him and this one thing will also take his mind of the break up..... i think the being alone or being with friends totally depends on the persons nature and characteristics..... like for instance when i was going through a break up i wanted to be alone and with my self.... and later on when my friends came into the picture they realised that the being alone was making things worse on my mental and physical health and thats when they started keepin me with them on a constant basis..... my brothers came down one day and took me back with them to their home in another state where they were constantly taking me out and making me meet new friends of theirs.... and get into the party circuit again an d thats when i really got out of the whole heart break thing..... so when you think you will be good alone rather than being with friends you may be wrong.... and sometimes the kind of friends also matter they are supposed to understand your heartbreak and all your needs.... some people can do more harm to you rather than mend your broken heart!! mending a heart is a very delicate process....