when is it too early to start dating again
By xxcrimson
@xxcrimson (24)
United States
December 20, 2008 8:44pm CST
me and my girlfriend just got out of a relationship today on our 5 month anniversary it sucksreally bad. but im alright about it and i mean i love her but i mean she broke up with me and says she needs tim eto think about things so should i wait? or should i just move on? i know it seems like im shallow but i mean idk what to do really. any advice?
3 responses
@StrawberryKisses (2833)
• Canada
21 Dec 08
How long have you been broken up? If you are thinking of movingon I don't think she is really the one for you otherwise you would not be thinking about anything other than her.
@xxcrimson (24)
• United States
21 Dec 08
we broke up yesterday... and it really hurts i just want the pain to go away ya know and she broke up with me on our anniversary in addition 5 days before christmas..
@StrawberryKisses (2833)
• Canada
21 Dec 08
You and your gf broke up the day you wrote the discussion? If you love her then you would not have such thoughts. You would be doing her a favor by moving on because she should not be with someone that does not love her.
@xxcrimson (24)
• United States
22 Dec 08
im gonna move on because the secret underlying fact why she broke up with me is because she was talkin to someone else and i found that out today whoever this dude is, is in for it with her, i was faithful to her and my love had never failed on her but aparently i was the only one in love in this relationship.
@Crislyric (37)
• United States
8 Feb 09
I think that its all up to you and what you feel is best. No one can really give you a timeframe to heal or to begin searching for friendship or love again. However, I will say that I think having closure of some sort with her will give you a clear head on what you want next for a relationship.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
9 Mar 09
I agree with crislyric no one can tell you specifically how long is long enough to wait. But I did read in one of the other responses you posted this the day you broke up. I would give it a few weeks or so before moving on. Make sure you know what you want from a relationship. I would want closure before moving on too and it helps me.
@lbenjamin21 (155)
• United States
25 Dec 08
this one is on you my friend you got to know if the person you got to know for the pass five months is worth waiting for. from looking in on the outside i could tell you anything but thats because i dont know the full detail of the situation. so in all fairness i would have to ask you if she is worth the wait, cause only you can answer that. secondly you did not mention why she wanted some time alone thats an important factor in the hole matter you need to give it some though and see if her reason is justifiable
