Putting up with people that you would rather NOT DEAL with...
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
United States
December 21, 2008 12:08am CST
As most of you all know, my boyfriend has the father from Hell. It has gotten so bad that my boyfriend's mother is going to leave his father as soon as the school year is over. Well, he can really p!$$ people off. He did with me, tonight. Usually, I just brush it off, but tonight, I could not do that. His daughter, who is special needs (she is 1 and 1/2 year-old trapped in a 17-year-old's body), and tonight she came down with bronchitis. Now, when she gets sick, it can be very bad, and my boyfriend's father was told to stay with us tonight to take care of her in case she gets worse. Guess what, she starts wheezing, a lot, and he just up and leaves us for a damn comic book shop.
His daughter is sick, and he leaves for a comic book shop.
The mother had already told us today that she needed to go visit some relatives, and that she could not take her daughter with her because the place where her cousin lives at is not wheelchair accessible. My boyfriend, his father, and I agreed to take care of her today, even though we took care of her Wednesday, Friday, and we were also going to take care of her tomorrow.
When his father came home the first thing he did was order his son around, the second thing he did was call him names as he always does, the next thing he did was go upstairs, and then he came back downstairs to play World of Warcraft. To Hell with everyone else, forget that your daughter is sick, just go play WoW for two to three hours.
Now, this is not the first time that his father does this, actually, he does this quite often, he does it with his friends, he did this with his parents, and he has been doing this to my boyfriend for years.
My boyfriend's mother said that she was going to come back home as soon as she could, but traffic coming from the High Desert to the Foothills is not always pleasant, in fact, it can be a nightmare this time of the year.
Anyway, when my boyfriend's father got back home, I picked up all of my boyfriend's sister's toys and I left, and I told my boyfriend that I will quit this job if I have to put up with his father anymore.
I am sick and tired of putting up with people who are @$$holes. I am tired of it. I have to deal with it enough at home, and I refuse to deal with it anywhere else.
Anyone else putting with people and things that they would rather not deal with?
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
21 Dec 08
Your boyfriend;s father seems rather irresponsible and inconsiderate. However don't let this hinder your relationship with your present boyfriend. Your boyfriend has nothing to do with his dad. I hope that he will be a responsible father when the time comes. I hate it when i have to deal with such people
HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR. © ronaldinu 2008
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@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
21 Dec 08
Oh no. I love my boyfriend, and he is a great guy, but his father is an @$$hole. He is irresponsible and he doesn't give a damn about anyone or anything. I know that my boyfriend is nothing like his father and that he wants nothing to do with his dad. He does not like his father and he does not want to be anything like him, but I did lay it down for him, if he ever ends up being anything like his dad, anything at all, I would leave him because I cannot put up with that.


