New quote that a heartbroken guy had made...

@Jhordie (5115)
Philippines
December 21, 2008 6:29am CST
"It's not so-nice to believe in a fairy tale then wake up in a nightmare...it's much better to be in a dark, cold tunnel, looking forward to a spark of light at the end..." I actually made that... just after realizing she(myEx) had another guy. Making me believe everything WAS alright until...SHE DUMP me BIG TIME! Any comment?! Am I cruel in speaking my mind and opening my heart. by the way, I am so OKAY now... just sharing my experiences and my thoughts. THANKS FOR SPENDING YOUR TIME reading this.
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9 responses
SomeCowgirl
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
28 Dec 08
I am sorry that you have been heart broken by someone you loved deeply and think that your ex could have atleast been honest. Their are many more fish, she wasn't right for you.
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SomeCowgirl
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
28 Dec 08
I'm sorry we've been neglecting your discussions. My fiance is actually not getting the computer as often, our laptop has broken so I told him I'd be on here making us money! I hope that you find the right fish!
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
28 Dec 08
It OKAY... I completely understand you and him. Just wish all the luck for you two. And God bless
Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
28 Dec 08
Nice to hear from you again... missed your responses and HIS responses as well. And I will remember that advice about fishes... Okay... bye now, I'll be packing my things now and be ready for fishing. ;) LOL just kidding. regards to him. Hope you two are doing okay. God bless such a wonderful couple like the two of YOU
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sarahruthbeth22
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
27 Dec 08
Woo. That's too dark for you. I hope you are not in a tunnel . I hope you are walking in the sun.Living your life and keeping your eyes open for the woman who will appreciate the nice man you are.I won't let you become a pessimist when it comes to love.
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sarahruthbeth22
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 Dec 08
Glad to hear it. Happy New Year!
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
28 Dec 08
I am getting near the light already so don't be afraid... I will be on my way to walk under the gleaming rays of the sun sooner or later. Thanks for sicere concern my friend and mentor. :)
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
28 Dec 08
Happy New Year too.. Hope to read your response on my newest discussion about NEW YEAR! Thanks in advance
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subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
22 Dec 08
it is true, we should face the situation. at times it will be you are at the dark world. try to search the light.
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I will... I'll definitely search for that! Thanks
kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
22 Dec 08
YEah, very well said ^_^ Nobody wanna be taken in for an bad surprised when they are in the midst of a good time, just like your case.. BUt for now, u are in a dark tunnel, and u are looking forward to a spark of light, which will come to u really soon ^_^ It's time to move on from this relationship, and embark on a new journey ^_^ MAke her regret for giving u up, and fidn someone who's better than her ^_^
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Thanks for motivating me and inspiring me to move on and embark in a new journey which promise a NEW DAY with a NEW LIFE full of HOPE! Thank you so much kuyaKUN!
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mjweed21
@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I can't find any cruelty on your statement. Well, it's good to air your sentiments. You're just trying to be true with yourself. Anyway, I do really believe on that quotation. We are not secured that we could always live in a fairy tale world. Everything is subject to change.
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
But whatever change in our lives that we will experience... we should trust that God allowed it to happen for our benefit! Thanks for understanding me.
Remembering1996
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
28 Dec 08
I am sorry you have to be torn like you are. You don't deserve to be treated like that. I don't blame you for speaking like you do for you have every right to. Know that you can find better and will in time to come and know that in time your heart shall heal and you will over come the broken heart keep strong and think positive all will be ok for you.
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
28 Dec 08
I am happy reading your response for you bring a positive outlook in my narrow perspective...thanks for understanding where I am coming from. God bless you my new found friend. :-)
lloydbelleza
@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
21 Dec 08
what really happened, kuya? I feel so sad because of what happened. Can things still work out between you and her? May I know the whole story?
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
21 Dec 08
You can readit on my discussion entitled... MY LOVE STORY! You'll get teh idea why It was really painful to me. Thanks for your concern lil bro. Ingat lagi coz kuya cares for you. :)
Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
A nightmare comes sometimes to teach you a lesson! Well I believe you have learned the biggest lesson in love from the nightmare you just had. Move on my friend! Go and take the challenge that your ex-ladylove gave you! What is that challenge? To find a woman better than her...a woman much much more deserving of your love.
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Nice way of putting everything that I had experienced as a CHALLENGE. I will remember that so next time around... I will search for a girl BETTER than HER! Thank you so much for that inspiring words. :) God bless such a wonderful soul like YOU
guybrush
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
21 Dec 08
I'm really happy you are okay now Jhordie - and so sorry you were dumped and cheated on. I know there will be another fairytale for you very soon - I'm sure there's a lovely girl waiting for you, and this time she'll be worthy of your love and care. Always keep your heart open - life is too short to miss out on anything. All experiences (good and bad) help you grow as a human being. Bless you!
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
It is really painful or should I say WAS PAINFUL?! Because I have managed to overcome that sadness and grief which I owe to every single friend that I have here in mylot, my loveones around me and God above. I will consider everything that happened to me as a learning experience which in turn would mold me into a better person someday. Thanks again...