this made me mad

United States
December 21, 2008 12:32pm CST
ok i have 3 pcs in my house and each are hooked to the internet 1 for my hubby 1 for my children and then there is mine. the childrens pc is parental protected . This morning i woke up to a picture of miley cyrus nude on my desk top. Now all 3 pcs are password protected and my hubby and i know the passwords to them the children ages 16 14 10 and 9 do not. that means that either my husband or my self either put the picture there or let the children on my pc (which doesnt have parental controls) to put the picture there. I can tell you that i didnt do it i go to very few sites and all are rated g or teen not x rated. My 16 year old is at a friends for the weekend so it would not have been them. I havnt talked to hubby about it although i should because this is my pc and he has his own. how would you react if you were in this situation
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@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
21 Dec 08
Something sounds fishy to me...If the computers are password protected and only you and your husband have the password, then I would say your husband did it... Now there is a possibility that the kids got on your pc because you forgot to close out of it...(just a thought)... But since you have been talking about your husband in an earlier discussion...I would say he is the one that did it.. I would seriously confront him about this...hopefully the kids haven't seen it... I don't know your husband and don't want to accuse him of anything, but with what you stated about passwords and all I would have to suspect he was the one...
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@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
22 Dec 08
Wow. There are nudy pictures of Miley Cyrus?? J/k! Yeah it would have to be your hubby then. That's pretty bad. Not just bad because it's a naked girl but because it is Miley Cyrus and I'm sure at least one of your children watches her on tv or is a fan of her music judging by their ages. I would be pretty upset. Do you know if any of the kids have seen the picture?? Maybe it could have been a hacker but that is unlikely.
• United States
22 Dec 08
I would most certainly talk to my spouse about it for he could've or had to be the one who put it on there. It was probably meant to be a joke OR a test to see if you'd come to him about it. So go talk to your husband about it and see if he's the one who did it.... especially if he's the only one other than you who knows the password.
@aringwi (136)
• China
22 Dec 08
don't worry about it.maybe others do it just for fun or to play a joke on you.is it possible that your son went home secretly and do it by himself just not letting you know it?
@goodkat (63)
• Romania
22 Dec 08
First of all, I don't think it was one of the kids who did it. It must have been the husband. I'm quite sure I can't be mistaking. The reason I'm saying this is because, well, when children are watching this kind of pictures, they go for something that looks more "full". Like Aria Giovanni, for instance. Second of all, to answer your question "how would you react if you were in this situation", well, I have to tell you, I would consider taking up jogging and a diet. After giving birth to four, I can imagine you are not the best-looking female on the planet. Maybe this was just his (rude) way of expressing his dissatisfaction with your physical condition. You can put Rocco Siffreddi on his desktop, as well :D Take care and good luck!
• India
22 Dec 08
I think as your husband knows your password so there is a chance that he may have opened your pc and then may have browsed such sites and later kept it as wall paper so that you may check it and understand his feelings. as after having children may be you are taking care of your children much and not paying much attention to your husband so may be for such reason as he could not tell you directly so may have used this photo for your understanding. its my view as i faced such situation once accordingly i am telling you.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
21 Dec 08
I know that it is easy to suspect someone in the household of doing so but also take into consideration that their are computer genius' out there to whom can do much the same without even a trace if they so wished. I hope that you get this solved though, and happy holidays to you and yours. My fiance and I have our own laptop and then his parent's have the computer. We don't usually use the computer that often nor the laptop.
@minfas (878)
• Sri Lanka
21 Dec 08
Are your computers networked. Or someone can gain access through remote desktop invitation by using some free softwares. But that software has to be installed in your computer. Did you check if there is any strange softwares installed.
@fatsanta (84)
• United States
22 Dec 08
First , take a deep breath and review the situation. Someone might have gotten through your network access if it was public.
@hooklady (17)
• United States
21 Dec 08
It could be a hacker or a virus. I would scan the PC with virus protection and then if I had children in the house I would put the same parental controls on all the PCs. Trust but verify.
• United States
22 Dec 08
lol. I had a similar situation. I let a girl borrow my laptop for a day. and I found models in bikinis and stuff as my wallpaper. my laptop, filled with non-neccessary stuff I had a weird feeling so I just backed up my data to my 160 GB external hard drive and reformatted the Laptop