Friends-with-benefits?? What is this?

Philippines
December 22, 2008 12:12am CST
Hi guys! I really don't understand what's behind on this. What's include of being friends with benefits? Please give some idea. Thanks!
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• United States
22 Dec 08
I think it's very inappropriate. In high all my friends were into that. And when I wouldn't swing their way, I was told I was no fun. Didn't make less of person to stand on my own, and stick to my beliefs. I wasn't the odd one out, I was the unique one. Friends with benefits, is people who sleep with each other who are friends. Have that person there to sleep with when they chose. They don't go out together, don't date, nothing like. They just want to sleep with someone and when they're done call each other friends. Until things go south they have a fight, tell other people their bedroom business, curse each other out, and now most of them aren't friends anymore. Funny huh?
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• Philippines
22 Dec 08
LOL. Yes it is. That is why I violated rules.. waaaa! No idea. What it is. lol Sorry people. I was just curious really.:(
• United States
22 Dec 08
Friends with benefits is awesome. I've only had one of those and we ended up hurting each other but at the time it was cool. It can be explained like this. You have a friend that find cute, or hot or whatever. They think you are pretty fun too. So one lonely night, you guys kiss. It's not so bad. Then it escalates and escalates to other things and it's just a rush. You don't want to commit to the person and they usually don't want to commit either. They just like feeling loved every now and then but once either of you find a boyfriend or girlfriend, it usually makes the other person realize that there actually was feelings.
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