Break ups

yes i have 2 major break up with my life...my first ever heartbreak was with my 8year ex boyfriend, we broke up because i caught him cheating. and then my recent break up is with my fiance' for 3years who call it quits after we have planned the wedding, bought our own house and ride and told our families that we are setting the date for the wedding and few months after we found out that i am pregnant with his child. because his reason is he is not ready yet for a family. (such a crap) its really hard on me right now bec. this break up is very recent and it takes for me longer to recover and move on. maybe time really will determine what will happen to a relationship you thought you are sure of stable and strong.

Hi Wilmonarch! I have had a recent breakup in my life. My boyfriend and I have broke up after being together for 6 years. We moved from my house we were living in the north and came to the south for the winter. After a week, he was to go back up for a couple of weeks and finish up some repairs. He didn't come back. I think a lot of it has to do with his kids. They are grown, but are still willing to throw a fit in order to get what they want from him. They didn't want him to move away. He won't even talk to me about it, he just says he has to make his relationship right with them, and then he will be coming back down. After 2 months, I finally gave up on him. It is very hard to deal with a breakup like this after you have been together for so long. Best of luck to you, I hope you never have to go through such pain and agony.