How can i tell my parents that they're spoiling my kids too much?

interesting point. perhaps it may be useful to cite what has happened to real people in similar situations. there is a saying "Excessive comfort is a good way to stay weak, uninformed and eventually, very unhappy"

Well this is a good question because I want to know the same thing. My mother is the same way with my daughter. I do not know if it is because she is the only grandchild she has (I am an only child also but every time we go into a store she just have to buy my daughter something. I have told her many times to stop doing that but she keeps right on so, I do not know what to tell you because I am going through the same thing.

well let me say, that sound like mom used to be with all the grand kids, and she used to tell me, that is what a grand parnets do, spoil the kids and then send them home. so i used to get upset too, but now since i have grand kids, i can;t wait until they are older. pay back is going to be so sweet. let your parnets spoil them, it's their job. but there should be a limit on it. but when you become a grnad parnet you will do the samething. my wife always remind no we dont need a swing set for the boys, they are still babies. lol.