people in angry moods

anger - painting of someone angry
@eseomame (1146)
United States
December 23, 2008 2:29pm CST
when you find that your relative, friend or partner is angry or moody what do most likely do?1. give them their space, they'll come around later 2. try to cheer them up - it may help 3. get angry and let them feel what it's like - who does he/she think he/she is?i, personally, will most likely go with option one. i believe everyone needs his/her space every once in a while.
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4 responses
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
23 Dec 08
If my friends gets angry, first I try to know the reason behind it and then try to calm him up.If the plan doesn't work I try to tell him/her any funny event that took place in my life that day and most of the time this plan works.
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@eseomame (1146)
• United States
24 Dec 08
i'm glad to hear that that works for you. i could hardly think of that to do but it's something i'd definitely try in the future.
@ashjoe76 (1422)
• India
23 Dec 08
I will try a comboination of options one and two. But in most cases, I just leave alone the one who is in an angry mood, to come to terms with the situation by his/her own. I try to cheer them up only if I know them really well and can take the risk of getting kicked off :)
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@eseomame (1146)
• United States
24 Dec 08
ok, good. since you can risk it, you may go for it, who knows, you may end up making things right. cheers.
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
23 Dec 08
If I encountered someone who is a bad mood, I will leave them alone, and allow them their space. I know when I am in a bad mood, I do not like to be bothered. I would rather be by myself, and eventually I will come around. I won't try to cheer them up because I do not want my feelings hurt, because they do not really want to be bothered. right now, i am not in the best of moods, my husband is home, but he knows how I am when I get like this.
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@eseomame (1146)
• United States
23 Dec 08
i agree with you. trying to cheer the person up may end up getting u upset, so it's better to give them their space. thanks for ur response.
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
23 Dec 08
Sometimes my parents or friends will be in an angry mood. I usually go with option one. Everyone needs to be alone and have their own time once in a while. I know I do. I always need to be by myself to cool down when I'm in a bad mood.
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@eseomame (1146)
• United States
24 Dec 08
exactly. left to me, i think that's in most cases, the best cos you may end up making the situation worse if you attempt to interfere.