how to find my referral links for dneero and comparedby.us?

I can only speak for comparedby.us and that there is not referral link to as of this time and there's no way you get referrals there if not through inviting them with their email address. Sending yourself an invitation would lead you to a link from your own and not for others to join under you. I cannot say anything about dneero since I am not a member there.